Tom Butler said:
You will hear at some point that once God elects someone, they will be saved whether they want to or not. That God forces them to be saved. And, that if someone is not elect, they can't be saved even if they want to. This, of course, is a distortion. The scripture is plain. God will save all who come to him in repentance and faith, and will save none who don't.
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This is exactly what I understand calvinisum to be. So if this is not true, what then is irresistible grace and what hope have those who are not elect?
Hanna, Tom is right.
This is how people try to mislead others on Calvinism. Why they do this...I am not sure. Maybe they do not understand...or maybe they just want to mislead others. But....God does not drag people into the kingdom while they are kicking and screaming .....
"No NO ...I do not want to be saved!! Please don't make me!!! Please!!! Someone help me!!! God is trying to save me...and I do not want to be saved!!!!!"
You may see a sinner say this, but this is before regeneration.
To understand irresistible grace, you must understand regeneration and the sinful state of man. Man is dead in that He cannot understand the truth. This does not mean his ears do not work. It does not mean man is stupid. It means that he hears but does not understand the need of salvation.
God works in his heart opening his understanding and turning on the light of the truth..showing the sinner that he is in fact a sinner and in need to be saved from his sins. People that hear and walk away have not been inlighened to the truth of salvation by the Holy Spirit.
The sinner that walks away after hearing the truth of the gospel has listen to his own sin nature tell them they are fine just as they are. Or maybe their sin nature will tell them that they will do it another day...after they are done sinning some more. But for some reason the sinner loves his sin more then to be saved from his sin and will not believe. There is no real need to be saved THAT DAY as far as they can see. Therefore the sinner never fully understands his need for salvation.
Once The Holy Spirit turns on the light....once the sinner sees he is a sinner and in
real need to be washed by the blood of the lamb ......once the sinner understands fully that Christ is the only way to be saved from his sins....once a sinner wants to be saved from his sins and not just escape hell....once a sinner wants to be rid of sin forever as he stands before a HOLY God...
grace THEN becomes irresistible and the sinner is saved.
In Christ...James