Hello Southern.
We are to love all people...[/B]
That love is taking care of peoples basic needs such as food and shelter. It is a choice to help those in need. There is no need for affection to be involved, but it might have compassion.
I say 'might have compassion' because I do not necessarily see that compassion is necessary in that kind of love. Since He loves us so much there is much evidence that the reverse is true towards those He does not wish to save.
In His command to us to love our fellow man is the idea that we must all see ourselves as the same, regardless of syptoms. This must not be reflected back onto Him, as if He was like us. He is something else.
The reason He treats the reprobate nicely maybe because He is patient and wishing all His Children born, and born again, before He sends the damned to the place allocated. I cannot see compassion there. I cannot see compassion in the way Pharaoh was treated. I can however see my Sovereign God doing as He sees fit without regard to my sensibilties. He has not called Himself a Rock for nothing.
Dt 4:24 God is a consuming fire.
PS 7:11 God is a righteous judge, a God who expresses his wrath every day.
There is no getting away from it. God can be a nasty bit of work, in our definition of nasty. And that is judging God. We must accept without question the description of God as related by God. Anything else is a judgement on Him.
On the other hand our God has a deep, infinite, affection for us. He is crazy about us. We are the bride of Christ. We are one with Him. We are His body and He is our very great reward. It makes me want to skip!
How could I skip if I thought that others He loved like me went to Hell? Arminians must answer this. Is this love or is it still fear? How does love and fear come to the same place?
johnp.