Do you really imagine these two men would be kissing in your house? Come on, stop imagining things that don't happen. They would not do that at a meal with you just as you wouldn't sit there smooching your wife.You're welcome to quote my post where I mentioned that I wouldn't love my neighbor as myself. Let me know when you find it.
Why would I want more sin in my community? So the grace of God would abound in it? God forbid! Hmm, I think that's a Bible verse in Romans...
No, I don't want sin in my community and you should not want sin in your community if you're going to be Biblical. The Biblical position is to not want any sin in your community and then when sin pops up, as it always does to either convert the person so that they're given a heart that would also abhor sin or if they're already a Christian, to hold them accountable.
I would not invite gays into my house because my 2 year old daughter don't need to be asking daddy why two men/women are kissing, or holding hands. My job is to protect my daughter's innocence. My job is not to sacrifice her innocence and corrupt her by purposefully exposing her to sin. What kind of foolish father would do that?
Your job is to train your daughter in the way of God and show her that you will love sinners through their sin and point them toward Christ. Truthfully, when these men see your holiness, there conscience will either be pricked and they will come to repentance or they will be uncomfortable and excuse themselves from a future gathering. But, you will have shown them Christ and their reaction will be between them and God. You've done your job as an ambassador of Christ.