That was a good post. But some of the doctrine presented as Calvinistic does not match up with what many Calvinists here teach. One of the most difficult problems in this debate is no two Calvinists seem to believe the same thing.
This statement is closest to what I believe the scriptures teach, but I do not like being labeled Arminian. I have never studied these doctrines and may disagree with them in many points, I don't know.
This order would probably agree with you that God's call is not determinant and that the men choose to have faith and because of this God has elected them unto salvation. After their choosing to have faith, they received the Holy Spirit/born again/sealed and are preserved by God until the day they enter heaven and are glorified.
This seems close to what I believe, although I am not sure what others understand the word "determinant" to mean. Is it God's will a man be saved? Yes. Does God impose salvation on a man? No.
I do not agree with #2 and will highlight those parts I think error.
The Calvinist take would be that God predetermined all events of time by His choice or His will and everything works after that counsel and His will is immutable as is His Persons. When time is just perfect according to His will, God sovereignly gets the call out to the elect. As they are hearing the Gospel audibly (generally speaking) He mysteriously calls them internally to providentially maintain all events. When God comes and regenerates a person (period of time in between is unknown) he/she always comes to saving faith in accordance to His will. The very instance saving faith happens the person is justified and sealed for eternity. Sanctification begins and the person is preserved by God's grace the same way God saved them (mysteriously; don't test God and your faith prove vain), and ultimately when one is truly saved he/she will be glorified.
I disagree with the sentence I highlighted and underlined. Especially, I disagree with the word "internally". This is a major difference. I believe God operates outside of the man. Yes, the Holy Spirit is absolutely involved and must be. A man must hear the word of God which is spirit and life. But this is heard from the exterior, and not internally. Now, that said, if a man of his own free will permits, he can allow the word of God and thus the Holy Spirit to penetrate his heart.
Now, I will show several verses that I believe clearly show that God calls from the outside, and that the man must allow the word to penetrate or enter the heart.
Luke 8:5 A sower went out to sow his seed: and as he sowed, some fell by the way side; and it was trodden down, and the fowls of the air devoured it.
I have highlighted what I believe shows my position. In the parable of the sower, Jesus explained that the seed was the word of God. The same seed was sowed by the wayside, the ground with stones, the ground with thorns, and then the good ground. The ground represents the hearer, which Jesus clearly explains in the passage. It is the hearer that is shown to be responsible for the condition of the ground.
Luke 8:18 Take heed therefore how ye hear: for whosoever hath, to him shall be given; and whosoever hath not, from him shall be taken even that which he seemeth to have.
Notice that the wayside was trodden down. This shows this soil was hard. It was stepped on and pressed down. The seed could not penetrate this soil and so laid on the surface where the fowls could come and steal it away.
This is a person with a hard, impenitent heart. They do not want to hear and receive the word. Wanting to hold on to a sin is usually the problem here. They hear the word, and understand, but do not want to receive Christ, because they know Christ will tell them to give up the sin they love.
Now, notice the good ground.
Luke 8:15 But that on the good ground are they, which in an honest and good heart, having heard the word, keep it, and bring forth fruit with patience.
This is the best ground of the four grounds shown. It has been plowed deep. Stones and thorns have been removed. It is prepared to receive the word of God. The word easily penetrates and the seed takes root and springs to life.
But as I showed, Jesus says the hearer is responsible for the condition of the ground and whether it will receive the seed, the word of God.
And now, the verse I have shown many, many times.
Rev 3:20 Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me.
This verse is so simple and straightforward, I have trouble believing anyone could not understand it.
First, where is Jesus to begin with? Is he on the inside or outside? This verse clearly shows he is on the outside of the sinner.
What does he do? He knocks and calls to the sinner on the inside. But where is he now? He is still on the outside.
Who must hear and open the door? The sinner. Jesus clearly places the responsibility of opening the door on the sinner. He will not enter unless the sinner willingly opens the door to him.
What does Jesus promise he will do if the sinner opens the door? He will come in.
Now where is Jesus? Now he is on the inside.
Do you see that? Jesus has been on the outside knocking and calling. He wants to come in and he makes that known. This is the calling of God. But the sinner is clearly held responsible for hearing this calling and then coming and opening the door to him. Only if the sinner opens the door will Jesus enter. Now, he is on the inside, and not before.
So, you see the Holy Spirit does not enter you and give you all the mechanics to complete the process of salvation. No, the Holy Spirit calls and knocks from the outside. The Holy Spirit convicts the man. But the man must open the door. And only if the sinner opens the door does the Holy Spirit enter the man. When the Holy Spirit enters, this is when regeneration occurs. This is when a man is born again and given everlasting life.
So, I cannot agree with doctrine #2 whatsoever, it is unscriptural. The scriptures show the Holy Spirit calls
externally, outside the man. And the Holy Spirit does not perform
"all events", a man is responsible to believe and receive the word of God (open the door).
You didn't give me enough information to understand doctrine #3.