No confusion here. I've looked at teh context and was in the context myself. The debate was against the fact we are saved by grace. And he was not the only proponent against my statement that we are saved by grace.
I'm not sure what is causing your confusion when the whole entire thing began as a dismissal of "saved by grace" and turned into "we're saved by faith not grace." Note also #2, #15, #61, #62, #81.
I've read through the thread P4T and I don't know how to say it more clearly. Here are direct quotes from the non-Cals in that thread:
"Of course, it is by
grace through faith." - Gershom
"God's
grace provided salvation through faith alone." -Gershom
"The
grace of Christ that provides salvation that must be accepted by faith alone." - DHK
"Salvation is by
Grace alone through faith alone + nothing." -Ben
"Justified by faith. Access by faith in Christ into this
grace in which we stand." - Gershom
"God's grace provided salvation through faith in His Son." -Gershom
"God's
grace provided me a way. That way is by faith in His Son. His
grace stands whether or not I have faith in His Son." -Gershom
"So in summation, no, faith by itself does not save you. But, faith is the means by which
grace travels. Without faith in God, there is no grace being applied to anyone. Will God save a true unbeliever? When one repents of their sins, they have to have faith in God. So, faith goes hand-in-hand with
grace." -Convicted1
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Grace "and" faith "and" belief.
Grace must be first, as it only due to God's
Grace that salvation has been provided. But it must also be noticed that without all of the variables in place the statement would be incomplete and thus not true.
Grace has been provided, which we all agree, thus it should be considered a mathematical constant."
"you are saved by
grace through faith.
Grace is always there. But salvation is dependent upon faith. No faith, no salvation." -Gershom
Need I go on?
Clearly they do not believe that one is saved apart from God's grace. They are all correctly arguing that we are saved by God's grace alone through the means of faith alone. You are the one arguing "either/or" while they are arguing "both/and" because that is what scripture teaches.
P4T, Even Calvinists affirm the necessity of faith for salvation and so should you.