@easternstar - I wonder if annihilation might be more cruel and horrible than eternal conscious self-torment.
Annihilation sounds nice if you compare it to perpetual dreamless sleep. But can you imagine having never existed? That seems worse in some ways. Like you had never been born.
Eternal agony in hell at least is accompanied by a sense of self. I almost think that having my self intact, even with nightmarish anguish, in total darkness, might be better than being turned off completely. No mind. No memories. No me.
Non-existence due to annihilation — we cannot really fathom what that would be like. Of course, satan and his demons might prefer that to living in the lake of fire forever. But they are completely evil and unrepentant.
We humans might be able to recall happy, peaceful, love-filled times in our past. Might not provide any relief, but at least our identity remains.
Both annihilation and eternal punishment seem dreadful to me. I want heaven to be full and hell to be empty. But either reality, not existing or conscious torment, are so awful, we should strive to lead people to Christ so they avoid damnation.