Okay, one LAST answer. Rufus, of course it's a kingdom THEN just as it is NOW. Just because there is a future kingdom doesn't mean that there is only ONE type of kingdom, and all references to the kingdom must be to the future kingdom.
Of the ME folks, you're the most straightforward, as far as I can tell. But you still share the approach of logical fallacies with your friends. You ask questions to which there are obvious answers, but then take a huge leap of logic to make them work out to your final doctrine.
All you'd have to do to make it totally absurd is to say, "Is 2+2 really equal to 4? Yes? Okay, then ME must be true." Your (plural - ME folks) questions are more closely related to the end result than that, but you (plural) still leave a huge gap between the premise and the conclusion.
Put more simply, anyone can string together a bunch of questions to which the answers are "yes, yes, kingdom, yes, etc." It is a non-sequitur to say that this all leads you to the conclusion that ME is true.