Of course you are correct Skan, but they are never going to admit that God caused man's depravity. I personally do not believe God punished Adam's descendents with depravity but has made all men upright (Ecc 7:29) but that all men choose to sin and corrupt themselves.
It is like court. A criminal commits a crime, but the judge determines the sentence. You might steal a car, the judge may decide to give 3 months in jail, or 5 years in jail. The sentence comes from the judge, not the criminal.
In some Middle Eastern countries, they have been known to cut off the hands or fingers of a thief. So, this man will go the rest of his life maimed because of the sentence given him. The thief is guilty of his crime, but the judge determines the sentence. Now, this harsh sentence at least makes a little sense, because cutting off a man's hand will prevent him from stealing again.
What Reformed theology (and others) teach is that God maimed not only Adam as punishment for his sin, but all of his descendants as well, even though they did not commit Adam's sin.
The question is, if God truly hates sin, why would he disable man from being able to do good? Doesn't make sense at all. If God truly desires that man be good and do good things, why would he take away man's ability to do good? Nonsensical. As I said before, cutting off a man's hand can prevent him from stealing again, so this makes sense. But why would you want to disable someone from doing good?
Of course, I personally do not believe God did this. I believe God punishes each man for his own personal sin, and the wage or penalty of that personal sin is death (Eze 18:20).
Many people argue "Why should I be affected by something Adam did?" The problem is that the question begs the question. Adam was created "upright" from the very hand of God. For all intents and purposes, there is
nothing in the human sphere to which Adam can be compared (other than Jesus Christ incarnate). If a direct creation of God with the greatest free will available made the wrong choice, upon what basis can
anyone argue that he could possibly do better? The data for any such logical argument is totally unavailable.
Rom 5:12 Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
Based upon this verse, some argue that it was not
sin that was passed upon all men, but
death. Sure, but it also says that
all have sinned.
1. If Adam as the ultimate human bearer of free will sinned, where is the basis to argue from any given wellspring of data that he could have done "otherwise"?
2. If we are
not affected by Adam's fall,
WHY have "
all sinned"? If we have the same free will that Adam did, why, out of the
billions of people who have ever lived, have there not even been
ONE who has not sinned? Is it just that the statistical deck of time is stacked against everyone so that the likelihood is [size=-4]really, really, really small[/size]?
Also, Total Depravity does not mean that everyone is as evil as he can be, nor than everyone cannot do "good" in the human sense. It is just that no one "seeks after God" (the
true God for Who He really is, not a "God" that pleases the natural man).