How could the older son have died as a baby when he was there when the prodigal came home and was even angry at him. Are we reading the same story?
Amy, it is a parable, and so it is not perfectly accurate. The home is heaven, the father is God. The elder son was elder because he had died young and never sinned. He had been there many years.
Luk 15:29 And he answering said to his father, Lo, these many years do I serve thee, neither transgressed I at any time thy commandment: and yet thou never gavest me a kid, that I might make merry with my friends:
30 But as soon as this thy son was come, which hath devoured thy living with harlots, thou hast killed for him the fatted calf.
31 And he said unto him, Son, thou art ever with me, and all that I have is thine.
32 It was meet that we should make merry, and be glad: for this thy brother was dead, and is alive again; and was lost, and is found.
The elder son never left his father, he never went out in sin and joined himself to a citizen of the far country as his brother did (Satan). The elder brother never transgressed his father's commandment at any time.
The father confirmed the elder son had not sinned, he called him "Son" and said "thou art ever with me, and all that I have is thine".
But of the prodigal the father said he was dead, but is alive AGAIN. If we are born dead in sin, separated from God, then it can never be said that we are alive AGAIN. The father said the prodigal was lost, but now is found.
The father NEVER said the elder son was dead, and he never said he was lost.
Now whether this agrees with what you have always been taught, it was Jesus himself that told these three stories which are one parable, and in all three Jesus described some who were never lost. 99 sheep were never lost, 9 silver pieces were ever lost, and the elder son was never lost.
I am just telling you what it says, you must pray and ask God yourself to tell you what this means.
It was this chapter (but there were many scriptures besides) that caused me to question Original Sin. It does not fit or match up with Original Sin whatsoever. In OS there are no 99 that are never lost and need no repentance, there are no 9 that are never lost, there is no person who has never transgressed against God at any time.
Yet, that is what Jesus told us three times. I believe Jesus told these three stories for a purpose, and it is our duty to study and understand what they mean.
But they certainly do not match up with the Pharisee explanation at all.
I believe you are making these stories much more difficult to understand than they really are. They are really quite simple and very straightforward.