Thanks Tony, you are doing a great job, isn't it sad how tradition is so ingrained, it's a form of brain washing.
I pray for lakeside and hope you can help him.
And I will pray for you. As always, we must be 'confused', 'brain washed', etc. Maybe we just have studied enough to realize that your viewpoint is an invention of the reformers and was not held by the Early Church. I would rather believe as those that sat at the Apostles feet. Early Church history is clear about what their belief was about baptism and it certainly wasn't what you are preaching.
And scripture is quite clear about the nature of baptism AND this is what the Early Church believed:
"Whoever believes and is baptized will be saved" (Mark 16:16)
“Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit." (Acts 2:38)
"When they arrived, they prayed for the new believers there that they might receive the Holy Spirit, because the Holy Spirit had not yet come on any of them; they had simply been baptized in the name of the Lord Jesus. Then Peter and John placed their hands on them, and they received the Holy Spirit." (Acts 8:15-17)
These are the ordinary steps for sinners to convert: believe, repent, baptism. Those have not reached the age of reason, can "immediately" receive the free gift of salvation in Baptism, based on the faith of their parents (Acts 16:33) and, of course, they must profess faith themselves when they come to the age of reason.