Imo, tea is natural, alcohol is a drug. Tea is better for your health (usually), except the caffeine might rev you up a little. Caffeine (a drug) can ruin you bones and cause wrinkles similar to alcohol, but doesn't affect your liver as much.
As far as I know, no one has ended up in bed with someone unplanned due to too much caffeine consumption. No one has ended up pregnant because their cognitive abilities were lowered. No one has imparied driving abilities. No one has been arrested for a glass of tea, though many around here, are arrested for 1/2 glass of wine because any amount of alcohol consomption and driving is DUI. Knowing this, if there is an emergency, one can always get up and take them to the hospital right then after drinking tea. What happens if there is an emergency in your home after you hac consumed alcohol? Who takes the kids to the hospital?
Immediately after only 1/2 glass of wine, everyone relaxes to the point of their natural defenses being removed. No action or word must take place. Just interacting with someone else is going to feel more "intimate" in this state of mind. That in itself, may be sin. It can feel like you are flirting with someone even though your expressions, demeanor, or words have not indicated such. This is why women (and men) come flocking over to others who suddenly "look appealing" in social drinking situations and you can't get rid of them. They don't get social cues, and linger longer taking about junk you have no interest in. They feel different inside, there is no natural instincs to evaluate situations as there were before. It's uncomfortable, I avoid those situations.
This is not to you Ann, but some select others. If you all are so hell bent on doing drugs then why don't you try Marijuana? It is lesser of the two evils. If you only take a hit, that should do. Two hits may be too much. The only sin I can see is if it is illegal. That personally doesn't bother me. If I needed to, I would smoke it. It is legal here anyway so there isn't a problem.
If you are going to drink alcohol., then I suggest you decide whether you feel it is sin. It is likely sinning worse than purchasing some weed from a friend. In fact, you don't know what they put in that bottle of alcohol, probably many other drugs (even a worm

) and you can probably trust your friend/acquaintance much easier. The fact is, in most situations, you are risking breaking the law by just ingesting the small amount of alcohol anyway. If there was an emergency, you know you have already decided you would drive if needed.
The effects of weed do not put one at the level of risk the alcohol does. It preserves your earthly tent better. I am not promoting either one, both are drugs which are bad for your body. Drugs should never be used for non-medicinal purposes. But since most here seem to want to promote drugs (alcohol) for non-medicinal purposes, this is why I am saying it.
But if a person insists upon doing drugs, I think you ought to pick the drug which is healthiest for your body. Exerciseand eating healthy (no drugs except for medicinal uses) provides a level of fix better than any drug can produce alone. If people were eating right and exercising, the alcohol couldn't provide a better fix. I am sure you will agree Ann, since you were a pretty heavy bike rider.
Marijuana produces a similar relaxed feeling without a hangover. There are no carnal desires (in fact, I beleive they are inhibited in a good way) and no drugs going into the the bloodstream. Only a small amount of smoke equalling about half of the smoke you would get from a puff of a cigarette. Relaxation lasts a few hours or so.
I believe the effects from only a half glass alcohol last a full 24 hours. Your body's natural process is not able to break down the foreign element of alcohol. Weed is not foreign to the body, and again, doesn't enter the bloodstream. Only a tiny amount of smoke enters the lungs.
I feel funny riding my bike the following day after only drinking a half a glass of wine. I didn't feel up to par, but not as bad, after a hit or two of weed the following day. Both are bad for your body and ought to be avoided.
I ride every other day, sometimes go as long as three days. Over the winter, it's longer such as right now. Probably only rode once a week in the last month.There was snow a few days ago. Like you, I crave that fix. During the winter time, I also crave coffee. Go through spurts buying it, and can get a headache if I don't drink it for a few days. It is highly addictive for me. So yes, there are many substances which provide a fix.