DHK,
I said...
"Its just amazing to me how obsessed you are with paying attention to the direction that they fall, and then criticizing them for it."
That reminds me of something.
The main fellowship I am a part of is sort of a pentecostal/charismatic type. During our praise and worship we get quite "happy" and joyful. People are touched by God and they are free to express it.
Well, several years ago we were invited by another church to join them for a joint service at their place. They are also a pentecostal type of church, but a bit more reserved then we are.
Well, during the extended praise and worship our people became quite "happy"

...as is our normal way. Jumping, shouting praises to God, hand clapping, etc. Just beautiful spontanious praise and worship.
(and we had no idea they would not be the same way of course)
Anyway, we later found out that one of the ladies at that fellwship spoke with our pastor and was very critical. She said that she noticed during the praise and worship that while one of our "20 something" married women was jumping, her shirt came up a couple of times, just briefly, and this woman actually saw a couple of inches of her tummy.
Horrors!
Well anyway, I didnt have any desire to make a big thing about this...and I didnt...but I sort of thought how I might like to ask her about that.
Something like...
.........hypothetical quote here......
"You expressed your concern and desire to sort of rebuke her for her tummy showing a bit while she jumped, but I'm wondering something.
This happened during praise and worship? And of course thats when we are all supposed to be
focusing on
praising and worshipping our God
So why, instead of that, where you looking around at people around you to make sure they measure up instead of being
preoccupied with worshipping your God?
And with that in mind, who do you think God was more pleased with?
Her, in her
unabashed worship of God with her
tummy showing.
Or you
looking around being critical of others during the time set aside to
praise and worship our God?
.........end of hypothetical quote........
Of course, I'm not saying this is an
exact match with our situation regarding this topic. But it popped into my mind just as I posted my last post, and I thought it sort of similiar
Just some food for thought.
In~His~Grace~
Mike