Sir, NONE of us loves as perfectly as God. He even told us to be "perfect" and "holy" and we don't do that. NONE of us measures up to God in love or anything else. For example, If Stalin or Charles Manson had murdered one of my children, I would have a real hard time loving him, wouldn't you? But this discussion about the CHARACTER of God as in the Son saying "Father forgive them" while He was being abused by Roman thugs on the cross.
That was the point.
Then the question is, who then are you (as a human) to question the love of God or how He may choose to express that Love.
For example: Two theives were crucified with Christ, to which one did He communicate, and what was the result?
Did Christ not demonstrate His love sufficiently to both? Yet, what was it that allowed one to be impressed into expressing belief, and the other to mock?
The question is; WHO is God, and what is His character? I say He is love, and that His love is far more than just "electing" certain ones and passing over the rest without offering them any hope at all. That's not the God of the Bible.
PS. Please...don't say I just denied Biblical "election". I believe election has to do with service; not salvation..
First, No one is saved with out purpose and plan for service. The claim of God for salvation coincides with the service He expects to be completed by that one chosen.
Second, Love and election are two separate but related issues in the Scriptures.
The Scriptures present that God creates and sustains all through Christ. That nothing was or is created that was outside and not sustained by Christ.
Scriptures also present that ALL are condemned already. ALL have gone their own way. ALL are unrighteous.
Who then are you to question God that He would select from among all that are unsaved some that He would adopt as His own, and purpose that adoption.
Illustration may help.
You go to a car lot. It has many vehicles each of various capacity and ability.
You select one vehicle for your own.
Why? Was there any overt action on the part of the vehicle to get your attention? Did the vehicle cry out of its own ability for you to choose it? Did the vehicle have some ability of itself to be better than any other?
No.
The choice was yours to make, based on your criteria, for your purpose and at your pleasure.
How then was that vehicle distinguished from all others in the world?
Not by the tires, the paint, the interior, exterior, engine, or in any manner specially detailed.
Rather a single piece of paper called a title.
That vehicle is yours because you posses the title.
Here in is Love, not that we (vehicle) loved God, but the He loved us (vehicle) and gave His Son to die for us.
Do not as some are in trying to refute election cheapen the Grace and choosing authority of God into some human thinking of what seems right, or is pleasing to the sensibilities.
God is the not only the maker/creator of the vehicle, but chooses from all that He made the one(s) He determines to claim as His.