We aren't born in Him at birth, only to be pulled away after we sin, so then that makes us born outside of Him, no?
Willis, the term "in Adam" is found only once in scripture, and that is 1 Cor 15:22. This verse is speaking of physical death, not spiritual. The entire 15th chapter of 1st Corinthians deals with the resurrection of our physical bodies.
If 1 Cor 15:22 were speaking of spiritual death (it isn't), then it would completely refute Original Sin, because it says in Adam all "die" which is FUTURE TENSE. It would actually prove we are born spiritually alive and die later.
So, this verse hardly helps your view, if anything it destroys it.
God did curse the earth, and God did ban man from the tree of life, and so all men physically die as a consequence of Adam's sin, but God does not impute any man's sin to another.
In Ezekiel 18 the Jews had a form of Original Sin, they said when a father eats a sour grape, the children's teeth are set on edge. God swore that they would never have occasion to say this false proverb again. Over and over he says a man dies (spiritually) for his own sin, and not the sins of his father.
Eze 18:1 The word of the LORD came unto me again, saying,
2 What mean ye, that ye use this proverb concerning the land of Israel, saying,
The fathers have eaten sour grapes, and the children's teeth are set on edge?
3 As I live, saith the Lord GOD, ye shall not have occasion any more to use this proverb in Israel.
4 Behold, all souls are mine; as the soul of the father, so also the soul of the son is mine:
the soul that sinneth, it shall die.
Some here have argued this chapter is speaking of civil law, but that is nonsense, the very proverb that the children's teeth are set on edge because the father ate a sour grape shows these Jews were teaching a form of Original Sin. In addition, if you read carefully, you will see this chapter is speaking of dying "in sin", that is, dying without forgiveness and going to hell.
18 As for his father, because he cruelly oppressed, spoiled his brother by violence, and did that which is not good among his people, lo, even he shall die
in his iniquity.
24 But when the righteous turneth away from his righteousness, and committeth iniquity, and doeth according to all the abominations that the wicked man doeth, shall he live? All his righteousness that he hath done shall not be mentioned:
in his trespass that he hath trespassed, and
in his sin that he hath sinned,
in them shall he die.
So, it is clear this chapter is speaking of dying in one's sins as Jesus spoke about in John chapter 8;
Jhn 8:24 I said therefore unto you, that ye shall die
in your sins: for if ye believe not that I am he, ye shall die
in your sins.
Dying "in your sins" is not speaking of physical death, but eternal spiritual death.
God clearly says the son shall not bear the iniquities of his father, neither shall the father bear the iniquities of the son in this chapter.
Eze 18:20 The soul that sinneth, it shall die.
The son shall not bear the iniquity of the father, neither shall the father bear the iniquity of the son: the righteousness of the righteous shall be upon him, and the wickedness of the wicked shall be upon him.
This one verse alone destroys the false doctrine of Original Sin.