Apostle paul was adressing the "carnal" Christians/babes in Christ, who had refused to "grow up and mature' Further in their walk with God, NOT unsaved there! Paul made a CLEAR distinction between those saved by grace of God, and those whom are natural man, NOT saved by God!
Also, matthew 13 referenced a parable of the Lord, His point was NOT what you asserted it to be, as parables given to explain usually one main point!
Folks, the above is more of the same shuck and jive Calvinists use to muddy the water and hide the truth of scripture. What has the fact Paul was addressing "carnal babes in Christ" like he was addressing men of flesh, have to do with the fact Paul indicated men of flesh could understand milk but not meat? Nothing!! It is like I say the sky is blue, and Jesusfan responds with it is not always blue. Shuck and jive folks.
Next, Jesusfan says the words used to explain the parable of Matthew 13 can be ignored because parables usually have one point. Whether Jesus made one point or a dozen points is not the issue, the issue is the point that He made that unregenerate men can understand and receive the gospel with joy. Calvinists try to nullify this truth rather than admit their false doctrine of total spiritual inability is unbiblical to say the least.
Jesusfan then asks, as if he had not received an answer many times before, whether I believe man is depraved in his fallen state. For the zillionth time the issue is the extent of the ability to understand and learn from God, I say fallen men have "limited spiritual ability" and Calvinists say fallen men have "total spiritual inability." I have demonstrated my view that Calvinism is wrong from passage after passage, and also that my view is supported by passage after passage. Matthew 13, ring a bell. Matthew 23:13?
Next Jesusfan again says scripture does not mean what it says. I say the rich young ruler was seeking eternal life. He asked Jesus, Mark 10:17, "What must I do to inherit eternal life." Calvinists, say this verse does not mean what it says. They deny the very words of Jesus. Folks, if you have to nullify scripture over and over to hold to a view of other scriptures, you should let go and start over seeking to understand the minimum scripture is proclaiming, and not adding in incomprehensible absurdities from the dusk of the dark ages.
Here is another point about the rich young ruler, why is it impossible for a rich man to enter heaven? The reason is if you are "rich" in your own estimation, you think you have something of value in this life, and therefore you need salve for your eyes so you can see you are a wretched naked beggar in need of the riches of heaven. So why did Jesus say "How difficult it is for those who have wealth to enter the kingdom of heaven. Calvinists have no answer, their doctrine says it is impossible for any fallen man, rich or poor to enter unless regenerated, and then it is impossible not to enter when regenerated. Therefore Calvinism is again shown to be unbiblical, because they deny some people have more difficulty letting loose of the worldly treasures of their heart.
The ball game is over, Calvinism has been shutout and didn't even get a hit.