I disagree that one is reborn (i.e., "born of the Spirit") yet even for a fraction of time not saved, not a believer, not sealed by the Spirit.yes, salvation does not come before sealing as we are saved after we follow what happens also described in Romans 10.
Neither does being born again mean at that moment the person is saved, before they believe in their heart God raised Christ from the dead.
What born again does is change our hearts to a new one that God then can teach and bring to Christ. The old heart is dead to Christ and God, they do not work with that. Like Christ says in John 8, the old heart is unable to listen to His words. Such a person will not be granted to believe.
IT is true though that all born again will be taught by the Holy Spirit and believe. Their is no instantaneous born again suddenly saved thing taking place.
The emotional response felt after believing comes from the Holy Spirit sealing us in Him.
God gives us a new inner heart is what this NC is all about, so that we can know them.
John 6, shows we must be teachable, that is what being born of God gives us. The 'all' here is not all men, it is all of those who are taught by God, they all come to Christ.
44 No one can come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws him; and I will raise him up at the last day.
45 It is written in the prophets, ‘And they shall all be taught by God.’ Therefore everyone who has heard and learned from the Father comes to Me
The above is in opposite contrast to john 8 here, these people are unteachable.
43 Why do you not understand My speech? Because you are not able to listen to My word. 44 You are of your father the devil, and the desires of your father you want to do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own resources, for he is a liar and the father of it. 45 But because I tell the truth, you do not believe Me. 46 Which of you convicts Me of sin? And if I tell the truth, why do you not believe Me? 47 He who is of God hears God’s words; therefore you do not hear, because you are not of God.”
I believe it is a serious error to break down salvation into orders of salvation (I do not believe that Paul's intent). I recognize those who do break it down believe these are "logical orders" and not chronological. However I believe that reasoning is just bad philosophy (I'd one thing comes before another by necessity it is chronological).