I am not a calvinist nor am I arminian.... here is why... this is written by a fellow freind of mine.
The Doctrine of God’s Love
And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness. (Colossians 3:14)
Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God. (I John 4:7)
The love of God to men keeps me from being an Arminian; the love of God in men keeps me from being a Calvinist. Therefore, I am grateful for the clear teaching I have found among the Primitive Baptists, which is consistent with what the Bible tells me about the love of God.
By “Arminian” I here mean someone who asserts that a man must, of his own will, perform some act or adopt some belief in order to obtain eternal life. This false teaching lowers Christianity to the level of all other human religions, where man has to do something in exchange for God’s favor. Whether a man is taught that he has to sacrifice something precious in exchange for good crops, or suppress some desire in exchange for a better reincarnation, or profess some belief in exchange for regeneration, the story is the same. These religious teachings portray the relationship between God and men as a quid pro quo, or “this for that,” in which God says, “Here is the requirement to man – meet it, and my favor is yours. Fail to meet it, and it is not.” The relationship is one of employer to employee.
But the Bible describes a relationship of love between God and His people in the human race. It is the relationship of a wonderful father to a wayward child. It is the relationship of a heroic groom to a fallen bride. It is the relationship of the sinless Lord, Jesus Christ, to men and women who are spiritually dead in trespasses and sin, and who are unwilling and incapable of meeting any requirement at all in the sight of a holy God. (Ephesians 2:1-5)
The Bible describes the love, or charity, of God as binding (Colossians 3:14), unfailing (I Corinthians 13:8), and everlasting (Jeremiah 31:3). Thus, no teaching which says, “God loves you, but you have to meet this requirement in order to live with Him,” can stand. If God loves you, He loves you forever, and will see that all requirements are indeed met – in the finished work of His only begotten Son. (Romans 8:32) The Bible teachings of the love of God far surpass Arminianism. This is grace -- a teaching of true Christianity.
By “Calvinist” I here mean someone who asserts that a man must, as a result of God’s will, hear and embrace some form of gospel before he comes to physical death, or else he is not a child of God. Sometimes, this belief is modified to make an exception for the person who dies in infancy, or the person who dies in mental incapacity, but the position still clings to a precept that the gospel is God’s “ordinary” method of providing evidence of eternal life. But there is nothing ordinary at all about the gospel being preached or believed. It is a miracle, which the Lord Jesus puts in the same list with raising the dead and giving sight to the blind. (Matthew 11:5) Furthermore, the Bible teaches in I John 4:7 that “every one that loveth is born of God.” They are regenerated. The same verse teaches that every one that loves “knoweth God,” which is eternal life (John 17:3). Thus, the Calvinist must believe that anyone who dies, having never heard or believed the gospel, also never loved. If he admits love to exist outside the boundary of those who will hear the gospel on earth, he has to admit that the regenerate elect person can also leave the earth without the gospel.
Specifically, the Calvinist must believe that one who never hears and embraces the gospel before death is one of the goats described in Matthew 25, who never fed the hungry, clothed the naked, or visited the sick. In that teaching, the Lord Jesus did not teach that the goats’ acts of mercy were insufficient, He taught that they were non-existent. Thus, the Calvinist is forced to state that the only unselfish acts of love and kindness are performed by those who have professed, or will profess, some form of Christianity before they die.
The Bible teachings are clear and consistent; there are human beings who are not God’s children and who will be judged according to their works. Conversely, there are human beings who are God’s children by grace, and will be judged according to Christ’s works. All children of God must have been chosen by God, must have been redeemed by the Son of God, and must be regenerated by the Holy Spirit of God. All of them will have faith, whether it is exercised in a manner obvious to others or not. All of them will know Jesus Christ, sometimes even when they do not know the name of Jesus Christ. This regeneration, this new birth, and this inner knowledge of the person of the Lord Jesus, will be the cause of love within their hearts. The Bible teachings of the love of God far surpass Calvinism. (Heb. 8:11-12, John 6:45, I Thes. 4:9)
What a great comfort it is to be able to rejoice about the love of God in men, wherever we find it. Then we may view it as our sacred duty and high privilege to tell men everywhere of God’s unfailing love, which reaches all of His children, whether they find the true gospel or die in false religion. Then we may tell them the name of their Savior, and what great things He did, and point them to the true Church of the Lord, Jesus Christ.
written by Elder Marty Smith