Ok…Great – we’ve moved from the idea that we do not really believe what we say we believe to “let’s debate what you believe”. I’m willing to do that, as long as we keep it honest.
I agree that definitions are a large part of our disagreement. Even then, we will disagree because of our reasoning, and perhaps interpretation.
When I say that we have “free-will” I mean that we have the freedom to choose. If given the choice between A or B, it is up to me to choose A or B. I am not programmed, the decision is not God’s to make, God does not override my will, and I freely choose. I believe in the “human free agency” of men. This is implied when we are found “guilty”. No choice, no guilt. But men do have a choice. And men have a legitimate choice. And men choose.
If I tied someone up and told them they can't eat unless they press a button and they, unaware that the button would kill people, pressed the button for food, would I accuse them of murder? I wouldn't, no. At the same time I realize that Scripture says that we commit sins of which we are unaware....so I'm not 100% on that answer. It is not that the dude lacked free will, but he lacked knowledge. He did not know the consequences of his actions, or perhaps he would have refrained from pushing the button and opted instead to die of hunger. Insofar as the topic, though, Paul addresses this when he says that all have sinned and are guilty because all have rejected what they have known of God, which has been revealed through the testimony of Creation.
Here's a better illustration - I am guilty of murdering the king's son, but I am not alone. A group of us chose to commit the crime. I stand on trial and see the king pardon my nephew who helped me. But he doesn't pardon me. Am I guilty or innocent? I don't know why the king pardoned my nephew, but was he obligated to pardon me as well? Does the king's decision not to pardon me for a crime that I committed make him unjust?
Well we can keep fixing the story hope you get the gist.
You without choice are forced in a car blind folded with your foot taped and forced on the gas and your hands tied to the steering wheel. Its a smart car so it wont hit the walls on the side of the road, however it will mow down all the people packed in the road.
Good news though you have free agency up ahead there is a fork in the road so later as your running folks over you get to turn left and run over people with red shirts or turn right and run over people with blue shirts.
Are you a murder for this situation?
Matthew 18
23“For this reason the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who wished to settle accounts with his slaves.
24“When he had begun to settle
them, one who owed him ten thousand talents was brought to him.
25“But since he did not have
the means to repay, his lord commanded him to be sold, along with his wife and children and all that he had, and repayment to be made.
26“So the slave fell
to the ground and prostrated himself before him, saying, ‘Have patience with me and I will repay you everything.’
27“And the lord of that slave felt compassion and released him and forgave him the debt.
28“But that slave went out and found one of his fellow slaves who owed him a hundred denarii; and he seized him and
began to choke
him, saying, ‘Pay back what you owe.’
29“So his fellow slave fell
to the ground and
began to plead with him, saying, ‘Have patience with me and I will repay you.’
30“But he was unwilling and went and threw him in prison until he should pay back what was owed.
31“So when his fellow slaves saw what had happened, they were deeply grieved and came and reported to their lord all that had happened.
32“Then summoning him, his lord said to him, ‘You wicked slave, I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me.
33‘Should you not also have had mercy on your fellow slave, in the same way that I had mercy on you?’
34“And his lord, moved with anger, handed him over to the torturers until he should repay all that was owed him.
35“My heavenly Father will also do the same to you, if each of you does not forgive his brother from your heart.”
The "wicked" slave here had no obligation to have mercy on his fellow slave, he indeed owed him. Can you guess why he is wicked? Why do you suppose his lord was angered by him?
Fun facts. The wicked slave WAS forgiven once. Do you think he would have stayed forgiven had he shown mercy?