WOW!!!
This is a classic HIJACKING of what the Bible ACTUALLY SAYS, by the so called "Reformed", who will try every trick to FORCE the Word of God, support their FANCIFUL NONSENSE!!!
Show from the ENTIRE chapter 9, WHERE does the word SALVATION appear? NO WHERE!
Romans chapters 9-11, is Pauls many arguments to show God's REJECTION of the Old Testament "elect" people, The Jews, because of their REJECTION of His Ways, and Jesus Christ as THE MESSIAH.
In these chapters Paul uses many examples from the OT, to show how the Jews, who were once the "elect" of God, had REJECTED Him, and God's sending of the Gospel Message to the Gentile Nations.
In Chapter 9, much to the dismay of the "Reformed", Paul is in NO WAY saying that God "elected" Jacob to salvation, and "hated" Esau so much, that He sent him to hell! NO WAY! What Paul is ACTUALLY showing, is God's PREFERENCE of Jacob over Esau, as in SERVICE, "THE OLDER WILL SERVE THE YOUNGER", verse 12, which is then explained in the following verse, that God PREFERRED (which is how "hate" is used here), Jacob. The use of the Greek "miséō", is in EXACTLY THE SAME WAY, as it is in Luke 14:26, "If anyone comes to Me, and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, and even his own life, he cannot be My disciple". Which is explained in Matthew 10:37, ""He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me; and he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me". NOTHING, whatsoever about God "detesting" Esau!
In verse 16, Paul says, "So then it is not of him that willeth, nor of him that runneth, but of God that sheweth mercy", which is simply the fact, that ALL God does, is because of HIS PERFECT WILL, and got nothing to do with OUR EFFORTS!
In 9:22, God says this about those who are not the "Vessels of Honor" (21), "What if God, although willing to demonstrate His wrath and to make His power known, endured with much patience vessels of wrath prepared for destruction? Note that God is said to "endured with much patience vessels of wrath prepared for destruction". WHY would God be LONGSUFFERING with these "vessels of WRATH", if they are hell-bound? The ONLY reason, is that they would CHANGE their ways in "REPENING of their sins,l and BELIEVING in the Gospel".
ONLY the "Reformed" will see in these passages, "evidence", that God has "elected" them to salvation, and damned the rest of humans to eternal punishment, which goes AGAINST God's own PROMISE, that salvation is FREELY AVAILABLE for the entire human race, as is VERY CLEAR to all (except the "Reformed), in John 3:16-18, and many other places in the Bible!