So as I said, calvinism upholds double predestination - essentially God counselling/decreeing a committed decision over the non-elect to be condemned. In accordance with this, there should be no opposing desires of God's against what He Himself has here predestined by decree - no desires that imply He is pleased with the opposite of His decrees happening. But we have -I think I am following, but just to clarify can you post the passages in question regarding what you believe is an inconsistency in Calvinist thinking?
Eze 33:11 Say unto them, As I live, saith the Lord GOD, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked; but that the wicked turn from his way and live: turn ye, turn ye from your evil ways; for why will ye die, O house of Israel?
Mat 23:37 O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, thou that killest the prophets, and stonest them which are sent unto thee, how often would I have gathered thy children together, even as a hen gathereth her chickens under her wings, and ye would not!
Again, not focusing on man and what he deserves, whether he's jew or not, in the OC or NC - not focusing on any of these. Simply God alone and whether His revealed desires are opposed to His predestined decrees or not. God reveals that He did desire the non-elect of Israel to be saved under His wings and that He rather has pleasure that they repent and live instead of dying. What do we do with Scripture that shows God's desire in opposition to His own earlier counsel/decrees?