There is a great difference between what God "wills" (sovereign decree) and what God "wills" (emotional desire) Often, the thing we do as the american church is say that if God is soveriegn than he is emotionally neutered. Like either he is sweet or cold. God is righteous, and he is merciful, He is just and the one who justifies. (See also Romans 3:26) God can soverignly ordain something and yet be emotional over it. He does not delight in the death of the wicked, yet wicked people die. He ordained that Christ would die on the cross to pay for the sins of the elect, yet was moved when it happened. He can ordain those who will be saved and yet the angels in heaven rejoice when one of his children comes to Him. Jesus can wait for Lazarus to die, then weep when he gets there to him. (Must I beat this horse to death?) My point is, that there is a difference between what God wills (decreed) and what he wills (desires). 1 Tim 2:4 when he says "who desires all men to be saved." Could be interpreted that God decreed all men to be saved, but that would prove untrue, because all men are not saved. Or it could be interpreted that he desires all men to be saved, and that lines up with other scriptures. It does not mean that all men will be saved, nor does it mean that God ordained all men to be saved (that is obvious) but that God can ordain for some to be saved and yet greive over the death of the wicked.