Obviously not; but that does not mean that the Father did not forsake the Son, to which the Scriptures so eloquently bear witness. We must beware of the error of Sabellianism or Modalism. There are three Persons in the Trinity. And I'm sorry, but 'forsake' definitely does mean 'desert' or 'abandon.' Because you don't like the idea, it does not mean it isn't so.
But is not taking the view that God could somehow separated from Himself in the manner of not just ignoring, or withdrawing support, but by presence and relationship stating in effect, "You are no longer my only begotten son? "
Basically, if one takes the "abandonment" to mean a separation of desertion rather than a separation of withdrawing support and distance, then at some point on the Cross the Son could no longer be considered the Son, and therefore lost. The Son would then have need of a redeemer, and disqualified as the pure lamb of God and the believer's redeemer. The trinity would indeed, under such thinking, become a duet. God would have to be shown in Scriptures as reconciling Himself to Himself. Rather, the Scriptures state God reconciles the world to Himself.
God never loses control over anything. Ever. He is also omnipresent, so nothing escapes His attention for a second. But Jesus was not 'taking a rest' on the cross!! The Father left Him, departed from Him, abandoned Him. He wasn't there holding His hand or mopping His brow. Do you not realise that Christ on the cross was under the Father's curse? 'For it is written, "Cursed is everyone who hangs upon a tree"' (Gal. 3:13). Who pronounced the curse? Yahweh Himself! (Deut. 21:23).
Suggesting that the Father in some manner deserted the Son could be taken as a statement of God loosing control, because at that point in time, God would have been separated from His word, mute, unable to proclaim, and the universe cast into chaos. Such thinking is unsupportable in Scriptures.
There is a problem with using Galatians and Deuteronomy in supporting desertion. To do so would make the passages imply that God is incapable of interaction with one who is "cursed." Such is not the presentation of God in the Scriptures (example, rich man and Lazarus).
From the time of Adam, God has interacts with "cursed" humans, without regard to their condition, for His purpose. Galatians (taken from Deuteronomy) is not a passage that speaks of God separating by desertion, nor does it even imply such took place. Rather, it speaks of the Law not being faith, and the sufficiency of Christ bringing the "promise of the Spirit through faith." That Christ took upon Himself that curse the law would impose allowing the promise. God did not curse Him, the Law cursed Him.
Why do you think that our Lord refused the wine mixed with myrrh when it was offered to Him (Mark 15:23)? It was an analgesic. What harm could there be in easing His pain a little? Because He must pay the full price of our sins to save us from paying it! 'For in the hand of the LORD there is a cup, and the wine is red. It is fully mixed, and He pours it out; surely its dregs shall all the wicked of the earth drain and drink down' (Psalm 75:8). In hell there are no analgesics. If Christ does not drink the cup of the Lord's wrath down to the very dregs, then you and I must drink it for ourselves. Otherwise how can God be 'Just and the justifier of the one who has faith in Jesus' (Rom. 3:26)?
I agree with the above statement. No doubt. But, again, this passage does not support that the Father in any manner separated by desertion from the Son.
On a side note for the readers of this thread:
Christ was offered a cup twice at the crucifixion. The first, He spit out for at no time would He take an intoxicant into his system. The second he took (for it was not mixed with an intoxicant) as one may to rinse the mouth of the typical buildup of "sludge" that occurs as one is dying.
It was for your sake and mine that the Lord Jesus suffered in this terrible way and that the Father had to treat His Beloved Son so dreadfully. Nothing else sufficed to save us. Instead of trying to water the thing down, we should be down on our knees crying out
'Love so amazing, so divine
Demands my soul, my life, my all!'
I do not diminish the suffering aspect of Christ in any manner.
However, as I have posted before, the suffering is not the redemption.
It is the blood that is the focus of redemption. Each part of the suffering was a blood letting (bruised, wounded, chastised - Isaiah 53).
Others suffered crucifixion, and there are accounts of great suffering that is given throughout history. Christ states as much when presenting the challenge to the apostles. So the "suffering" of the cross is certainly to be esteemed, but it is to be taken as the tool to shed the blood, just as the whipping, and the beating.
What is remarkable is that God's own Son would allow the suffering, would provide no immediate rebuke to those who physically, emotionally, mentally brought Him pain. That such pain was the tool God choose to shed the blood, where He had given far more human treatment to shedding the blood of OT sacrifices.
God presents to the believers the suffering savior, not as a redeemer, but as an example to believers that the suffering conforms us to Him and that the reward of suffering for Him is glorification.
One should never diminish the Blood by mingling the suffering as redemptive, "and according to the Law,
one may almost
say, all things are cleansed with blood, and without shedding of blood there is no forgiveness." Hebrews 9