WestminsterMan
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Before going any further, have you done a complete in depth study on the entire chapter of 1 Cor.7? Do you know the background? Do you know the reasons why Paul was saying things that seemingly contradict what he had said previously on marriage?
I have done an in-depth study; yet I come to a different understanding than you. Hmmm...
You need to find those things out. Context goes a long way before making foolish statements.
Deemed foolish by who - you? When someone challenges your position you always shout CONTEXT! and then go about pontificating nothing but your personal (and fallible) interpretation. Right...
First stop here. How many are capable of it. Did you read the first few verses of the chapter? Why does Paul say at the beginning of the chapter:
"Nevertheless to avoid fornication let every man have his own wife.
So Paul really didn't endorse it, did he? Scripture out of context is not wise.
Context:
For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that. (1 Corinthians 7:7)
--This was Paul's desire, not God's will. He states it as such. But you have deliberately misconstrued what he has said by omitting verse seven and thus taking verses 8 and 9 out of context.
Fine - then let's contextualize it shall we? Keep reading!
"Are you free from a wife? Do not seek marriage. . . those who marry will have worldly troubles, and I would spare you that. . . . The unmarried man is anxious about the affairs of the Lord, how to please the Lord; but the married man is anxious about worldly affairs, how to please his wife, and his interests are divided. And the unmarried woman or girl is anxious about the affairs of the Lord, how to be holy in body and spirit; but the married woman is anxious about worldly affairs, how to please her husband" (Corinthians7:27-34).
So here is the context DHK... Those who wish to devote themselves totally to God (or those who are anxious about the affairs of the Lord) cannot do so as easily as those who are celebate - male or female. It couldn't be clearer.
How you twist the Scriptures.
And oh how anyone who comes to a different conclusion than you must endure a deluge of petty accusations peppered with sophomoric insults. Very classy there DHK...Where did you learn your people skills - in a Mexican jail?
God's will from the beginning of creation is for every man to have his own wife. What God has joined together let no man put asunder. Let every man have his own wife, he says. Marriage is a beautiful relationship likened unto the church as the bride of Christ described in Ephesians chapter five which Paul also wrote. Is Paul a schizophrenic? No, but you don't understand what he is saying and the context in which he is writing.
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But and if thou marry, thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you. (1 Corinthians 7:28)
--Obviously marriage is not sin; it is God's will.
I didn't say that marriage was a sin. I said that celibacy is acceptable and highly lauded for those to whom the gift is given.
If this is your view on marriage I feel very sorry for you and for your wife if you have one. If you are single, I advise you to remain single until you can sort these things out.
I neither want nor need advice from a complete stranger about my marital status. Further, these types of comments have no place in the realm of intellectual discourse. Your behavior may be the norm at Podunk U, but not at most rigorous institutions of higher learning.
Marriage is God's will, but if you do not marry in these circumstances you will do better to avoid heartache. You have misunderstood the entire passage.
So you say. However, there is nothing in those passages that would lead a non-agenda driven reader to any of those fallacious conclusions.
Please not the context again:
His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. (Matthew 19:10)
Jesus was clearing up the statements he had made on divorce and remarriage.
Baloney! Here is what Jesus said - deal with it.
"Not all can accept this word, but only those to whom it is granted [a gift]. Some are incapable of marriage because they were born so; some, because they were made so by others; some, because they have renounced marriage for the sake of the kingdom of God. Whoever can accept this ought to accept it" (Matt. 19:11–12). [Emphasis mine]
For a church to advocate celibacy as the norm, as does the RCC for their clergy, it is a doctrine of demons.
I'm not defending the RCC - only pointing out, to your obvious dismay that Jesus Himself said: "...some have renounced marriage for the sake of the kingdom."
Prance around it all you wish but you cannot deny the meaning of His very words.
Peace!
WM