I agree with you regarding human nature. I do wonder, however, exactly what this "nature" entails. We often talk of it, but it is rarely defined.
I agree that definitions are important.
I have some accounting background and common terms such as asset,income and so forth have vigorous definitions that would confuse a layman. But such academic and precise definition are really not necessarily essential to the layman. He will grasp what an asset is and what it is not readily.
Coming to scriptures and, theology, definitional imprecision abound. Soul,spirit,regeneration,righteousness,holiness,godliness,justification,judgement....
Some times I find it unhelpful,subjective and other times it amplifies my belief.
'Sinful Nature' to me embodies our tendency to rebel against God. Just as an alcoholic has a tendency to abuse or take alcohol in excessive amounts regularly, but can be sober at time, so is the Sinful Nature; not always and in every way sinning but it
tends to sin
Did Jesus not have the same human nature that we have (only he did not sin)? I believe he did. So I do not know that we are necessarily sinners based on our nature (apart from actually sinning) as much as we are inclined inwards - to satisfy our desires, the desires of the flesh - rather than towards God. So I believe that Jesus had a human nature and was tempted as we are, but denied the flesh to glorify the Father.
Romans 8:3 tells me Jesus came 'in the likeness of sinful flesh,and for sin'. HOW did Jesus manage a sinless life? Was his humanity somewhat special than ours? If so then is it fair to set him up as an example of overcoming temptation? If he was in every way human yet without sin, can a human attain the same state of sinlessness? (I have met 'sin-free' Christians)
This is part of my faith I'm still interrogating. It is one where no proposed paradigm answers all questions. Just like any approach to interpreting Revelation, none is,to date and to me, without holes.
That said, taking on human nature also involves being under the curse, which is death. So I also agree that our natures are bent towards the flesh rather than to God. This is what it means to be human. Even now we bear our crosses, flee from sin, and subdue the flesh.
Wholly agreed
This is what I mean by total depravity. We are dependent on God to draw us. I also agree that this is not compulsion but rather the influencing of God. Spurgeon explained it well when he noted that the most common means God uses to draw men is persuasion. But even this, our acceptance of what so many have rejected, is the work of the Holy Spirit in our lives.
So God does something leading to acceptance in some and not others,right?
I agree that we resist God's drawing. But here we would also disagree. I believe that God draws all men in a general sense. This is evident in what is known of God through common means. All men are inclined to seek God in a manner. Jesus died as the Savior of mankind, so that men may be saved. And all men reject this salvation. There was a time for all of us that we were unsaved, in a state of rebellion against God because we have all sinned. But I also believe that God draws some of these who have rejected that general drawing or call in a particular sense. And they may be resistant here as well. But God prevails. This is irresistible grace, that God accomplishes his purpose - not by compulsion but by transformation.
I won't push it but I think you have just described compulsion.
I'm from Kenya. Kenya has various parts which are steeped in traditional religions and witchcraft. Our neighbors Tanzania are famed for even more potent witchcraft. One type of this is love potions. A woman does it targeting a man and the man is supposed to hopelessly fall for her. Some actually reduce men to puppets, they surrender all their businesses and salaries to a woman.
Supposing a woman did this to you and it worked, would it be anything other than compulsion?
This crude analogy is exactly what unsolicited 'transformation' that makes
particular drawing effectual seems to me. Whether after the transformation you want nothing but to follow Christ, you have been rigged to do so. More on this later.
The main reason we may disagree on this aspect is not compulsion but rather that God is anything but love to all those he won't irresistibly draw to him.
He loves them so much as to derive pleasure and glory (Jonathan Edwards spin) in their damnation.
Illustration.
I know you consider yourself Elect.
Consider this. It is perfectly plausible for one Mr. X to study and understand your position including about all you know about God.
Now suppose Mr X is reprobate, and he is also under no illusion that he is anything else. Would Mr X share your perception of God's love and mercy? Would John 3:16 make any sense?
What I'm saying is this particular belief system presupposes all its recipients and purveyors are Elect, are safe. That's why Edward had no qualms over eternal damnation giving God glory as much as eternal life, yet he couldn't volunteer to glorify God from hell
The issue that I have seen on this thread (not necessarily with you, brother) is that sometimes people want to magnify disagreements by redefining the beliefs of others in such a way to "win" an argument. I've seen this done against various positions (not just Calvinism). I think that we can benefit from discussing our disagreements, even if we never come to the same conclusions. We get to learn of each other's beliefs, consider those interpretations, refine our views if necessitated, or perhaps strengthen our own arguments. But we cannot do this if we are not willing to work with the views of opposing brethern. I cannot debate your position if I consistently define your position for you. I have to deal with your view on your terms, or not at all. Sometimes people think that are fighting dragons when in truth they are battling windmills. They may achieve victory, but it is hollow and meaningless.
Too many people simply do not take the time to listen and learn what others are saying. I do not mean to be harsh - I have done this as well. But there comes a time when we need to pause and see what is really being said before proceeding (again, not directed at you but the direction of this thread).
I'm guilty of what you are saying and I've also been a victim. Somebody not only misrepresents my statement or belief, but proceeds to tear it apart. I can't defend what I don't believe in.
But there is another annoying and hilarious habit I have noted not necessarily on this thread; repeat claims that your belief/position is misunderstood. This I usually find as a defense mechanism when your argument or position falls apart and is indefensible. Or where inconsistencies in your beliefs is pointed out. Short of abandoning them, you charge your debater with ignorance without proof.
I think it's human nature to resist admitting fault. The fact that we have invested time,money,resources and emotions in beliefs also makes us cling to them too tight even past their sell-by date.
That said, I sincerely apologize to anyone here I may have hastily misrepresented their position or used unkind words. Please do find it in your heart of hearts forgiveness.