What does anybody want, if not scripture, to tell us what "hate" means? And by scripture that notion that God loves everybody all the time is proven to be a fantasy.
I'm not sure how long ago, but I recall a thread titled something like "Does God love those who are in hell?" And quite a number of posters were saying he does. If that's true, then love is surely the most meaningless word that's ever been used. If it's true in the sense that no matter how tormenting hell [I'm using that generic word to mean hades, gehenna, or the lake of fire] is, that God could make it a million, billion, or trillion.... times worse, you have to believe it's equally true that no matter how good heaven is that it could be a million, billion, trillion... times better-- concluding then that God could love us far, far more than he does.
But then dealing-- trying to-- with infinite concepts in regard to eternal fate may have lowered my math grades a level in every class. If life is eternal happiness [with no torment], and death is eternal torment [and no happiness], and time never 'runs out' on either, then both have to get progressively better or worse or they have taken turns toward the opposite, which would mean there is less love or less hate than the previous moment. So does God infinitely and progressively hate as well as infinitely progressively love? or does he love less or hate less at many (infinite?) points? And [keeping this elementary] if either is absolute zero in regard to the other, defining one over the other is dividing by zero, meaning it's undefined; or if asking the question of 'how much greater is happiness in heaven than in hell?' there is no definition... so do we even know? No. But they don't, in fact have zero relation to each other, to define one in terms of the other, or how shall the tormented be so in the presence of the angels and the Lamb [Revelation 14:10]?