Scarlett O. said:
Just one last question.
As someone who believes in some people never having an opportunity from God to be saved, how do you deal with "For God so loved the world..." and "It is God's will that none should perish...."?
Okay! "For God so loved the
world." Compare to 1 John 2:15 "Do not love the
world or the things in the
world. If anyone loves the
world, the love of the Father is not in him."
Obviously, "world" cannot possibly mean "everyone in the world" everywhere it is used. So who is to say it MUST mean "everyone in the world" in John 3:16? To me, it means "the world" as in "Jews and gentiles alike, not just Jews only".
Better yet, just look past verse 16: "19 And this is the condemnation, that the light has come into the
world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. 20 For everyone practicing evil hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed. 21 But he who does the truth comes to the light, that his deeds may be clearly seen, that they have been done in God.”
There you have the world consisting of men who refuse to come into the light. Then it is contrasted by "he who does the truth comes to the light". Obviously, the world cannot include "he who does the truth", right? In short, there's no reason why "world" MUST mean every person.
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Remember, whenever you see "all" or "any" you have to ask yourself, "all of whom?" or "any of whom?" Any of the whole world? Any gentiles? Any Jews? What's the context? Look at the context of 2 Peter 3:9. It tells you right there who he's talking about when he says "not willing that any should perish".
2 Peter 3:9 "The Lord is not slack concerning
His promise, as some count slackness, but is longsuffering
toward us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance.
So the "any" refers to "us". So again, in context:
2 Peter 3:9 "The Lord is not slack concerning
His promise, as some count slackness, but is longsuffering
toward us, not willing that any [OF US] should perish but that all [OF US] should come to repentance.
And who are "us"? Peter and the people to whom he was writing. The elect.