There is no case in the Bible that I can think of where a dream is being given just for a person's private benefit --
Surely you aren't asserting that
"if it's not in Scripture, it's wrong", are you?????
This philosophy could lead to all kinds of rabbit trails---!
Joh 21:25 And there are also many other things which Jesus did, the which, if they should be written every one, I suppose that even the world itself could not contain the books that should be written. Amen.
Do we need to strictly limit this verse to things that Jesus "DID"! Can we not logically infer that there is a great deal about God dealing with man that we aren't told?
Does having a dream where God speaks directly to an individual for his own good violate any of His word?
If any belief/concept/action does not contradict the written word, then why condemn it?
And please, (not that I think you, Marcia, would do this, but there are many who love to argue simply for the sake of arguing) do not retort that nowhere in scripture does God condemn chewing tobacco, or getting high on canned air, or some such nonsense---the principles are there if you are really concerned enough to check it out!
The point being that absence of any word in Scripture about any given topic
does not condone OR condemn that topic.
Each subject must be examined against the teachings of Scripture to verify or deny it's validity.