So, we're to believe that alcohol is responsible for deaths, ruined relationships, etc.
I wonder if Steadfast owns a gun. Do guns kill people or do people kill people? We could say that guns are responsible for the same things as alcohol, but, in reality, someone has to pull the trigger - or take the sip. Being from the great state of Mississippi, five will get you ten that he either owns a gun or supports gun rights.
This is one of those subjects that will go around in a circle. Opponents will make a biblical argument, and when that is shown to not hold water, they will try a logical or rational argument (i.e. alcohol kills). When the holes are found, they will move to the anecdotal, sentimental arguments, which of course are not persuasive. Then, they go back to the Bible and start all over again.
There's just no defending the prohibitionist perspective.
You can believe drinking is wrong all you want, but this is a non-essential. It's adiaphora. So, don't like it? Don't drink it. But allow the rest of us the freedom to follow our own conscience in the matter.