I'm non-Cal but don't know anything about Ed Young Jr., except for what I viewed in the video clip. Based on that scant evidence, no, I would not respect him as a pastor/teacher.
Google "Ed Young scandal" and see what you get. I don't think the non-Cals would be defending him if they did.
By the way, I don't mind listening to those who teach against Calvinism as long as they use scripture to do it with. It is the way he did it that should rub all of us the wrong way. ( and yes, I would like to think I would be consistent if the roles were reversed).