Make no mistake about it, my brother, we do 'understand all the implications of the believers being chosen before the creation of the earth.' [Ephesians 1:4] God knows everything. But, to blatantly say that His election was and remains autocratic is going beyond Scripture. He knows the exact number of His elect, but this does not even hint that He sent the majority on the skids to Hell. In order to believe in 'Unconditional Election' a person has to reject and try to expunge all of the 'whosoever' found in the Gospel. This we will not do, because God's Judgment Seat of Christ is coming in the future when all of His people will be evaluated for all that we have said and done. [II Cor. 5:10 & 11a]
God has sovereignly ordained and or allowed the free agency of human beings. God ordained that Adam had the opportunity either to fail or not to Fall in the Garden. God knew that Adam would make the fateful choice and God ordained the Second Adam, meaning Christ, to make an escape for all persons [Romans 5:18] from the 'second death' [Rev. 20:14] through His Son, our Lord. The sinner only has to receive this 'free gift.' [Romans 5:18; Acts 16:31] in order to be numbered among the elect [Titus 1:1-2; I Peter 1:2; II John 1:1 & 13]
Foreknowledge has always been the ruling factor in the Divine Godhead. [Romans 8:29a and I Peter 1:2] God has always known the number of the elect but He never has or will 'strong arm' each of His self-ruling created beings into an alleged, pre-planned Divine manipulation.