Below is how I teach freewill and election. I have posted it in other threads but thought it might be helpful here.
I believe Gods sovereignty and the freewill of Man are both clearly taught in Scripture.
Election:
John 6:65 And He said, "Therefore I have said to you that no one can come to Me unless it has been granted to him by My Father."
John 15:16 You did not choose Me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit, and that your fruit should remain, that whatever you ask the Father in My name He may give you.
Freewill:
John 3:16 For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.
Matthew 23:37 "O Jerusalem, Jerusalem, the one who kills the prophets and stones those who are sent to her! How often I wanted to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, but you were not willing!
If Scripture is without error and Scripture teaches both, then both must be true, correct?
After sin was introduced, and God entered the garden looking for Adam, what did Adam do?
Genesis 3:10 So he said, "I heard Your voice in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; and I hid myself."
He hid, and Man has been hiding from God ever since.
Revelation 6:16 and said to the mountains and rocks, "Fall on us and hide us from the face of Him who sits on the throne and from the wrath of the Lamb!
We will not come to God on our own, even though we have the freewill to do so. Rather we run from God and the acknowledgement of our sins.
God desires that all of us would come to him, but none of us will come on our own. So God does not choose who will go to hell, we choose hell ourselves. The problem is without God calling us and convicting us of our sins, we will continue in them, thus rejecting God and deserving hell.
Romans 1:20 For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes are clearly seen, being understood by the things that are made, even His eternal power and Godhead, so that they are without excuse.
The existence of the World and all that is in it is clear evidence of God, yet we will not come to him without him initiating the call by placing conviction and guilt on our hearts. Therefore God Chooses some of us, for his own Divine reasons and through no merit of our own, to bring to him.
Matthew 20:16 So the last will be first, and the first last. For many are called, but few chosen."
Matthew 22:14 For many are called, but few are chosen."
Psalms 65:4 Blessed is the man You choose, And cause to approach You, That he may dwell in Your courts. We shall be satisfied with the goodness of Your house, Of Your holy temple.
This is the reason that Man is responsible if he goes to hell, but God deserves all the credit for salvation.