Because if salvation is by love then there's no hope for either of us.
Listen! You want to be saved by love? OK, here's the deal:
"You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul , with all your mind and with all your strength. This is the first [ie. most important] commandment. And the second, like it, is this: you shall love your neighbour as yourself." there is no other commandment greater than these" (Mark 12:30-31). Now, are you going to say that you do these things all the time, perfectly, without fail at any point? 'For as many as are of the works of the law are under the curse; for it is written, "Cursed is everyone who does not continue in all things which are written in the book of the law to do them"' (Galatians 3:10 quoting Deuteronomy 27:26).
You cannot come to Christ and say, "Look at my love!" because you cannot love Christ as He deserves, and you cannot love your neighbour as you should. If you think you can then your sin is pride which is an abomination to God (Proverbs 6:17; James 4:6).
You must come to Christ as a beggar. 'For Your name's sake, O LORD, pardon my iniquity for it is great!' (Psalm 25:11). You must lay hold of Christ as a drowning man lays hold of a lifebelt, doing nothing else but trusting it to keep you afloat, realising that you are a poor lost sinner whom God would be perfectly just in sending to hell this minute.
You have nothing to offer Christ that He would want. You say, "Well, I have given Christ my heart." Really? 'The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked' (Jer. 17:9). "....Out of the heart of men proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders, thefts, covetousness, deceit, lewdness.....etc." (Mark 7:21-22). And you're going to offer Christ that? Salvation is God saying to you, "I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you; I will take the heart of stone out of your flesh and give you a heart of flesh" (Ezekiel 36:26).
Jesus never stated we were incapable. He even says sinners even love those who love them.
Luke 6
27“But I say to you who hear, love your enemies, do good to those who hate you,
28bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.
29“Whoever hits you on the cheek, offer him the other also; and whoever takes away your coat, do not withhold your shirt from him either.
30“Give to everyone who asks of you, and whoever takes away what is yours, do not demand it back.
31“Treat others the same way you want them to treat you.
32“If you love those who love you, what credit is
that to you?
For even sinners love those who love them.
33“If you do good to those who do good to you, what credit is
that to you?
For even sinners do the same. 34“If you lend to those from whom you expect to receive, what credit is
that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners in order to receive back the same
amount. 35“But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing in return; and your reward will be great, and you will be sons of the Most High; for
He Himself is kind to ungrateful and evil men. 36“Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.
This is basic-basic-basic Christianity. If you don't believe Jesus here its no wonder your going to get everything else wrong.
Sinners love those who love them, So if God loves them, they can't pull it off?
Luke 6
45“The good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth what is good; and the evil
man out of the evil
treasure brings forth what is evil; for his mouth speaks from that which fills his heart.
You have to be saved by love because LOVE is God. 1 john 4
Love calls the shots.
John 3:16
16“For God so
loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life.
No love, No Jesus.
You say come like a beggar........Without love, you wouldn't even CARE to ask for forgiveness.
Without love we wouldn't even be discussing this, you would not care at all.
1 Corinthians 13
2If I have
the gift of prophecy, and know all mysteries and all knowledge; and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing.
You can KNOW all mysteries and all KNOWLEDGE. Right off the bat that means you know Jesus Christ exist, you certainly believe it, You know the trinity, You KNOW GOD. There is no question believing him.
You also have ALL FAITH. You trust, are confident, All faith is everyones faith add every holy man's faith that ever existed. Imagine your faith is so HIGH faith....in Jesus and God, you are now moving mountains at will.
....but don't have love?
I am nothing.
Worthless.
Love is greater then Faith. Believe the scriptures. They spell it out for you:
1 Corinthians 13
13But now faith, hope, love, abide these three; but
the greatest of these is love.
I spelled it out repeatedly from scripture.
Love is the end all be all.
Don't tell God you have a BIG problem, Tell your problem you have a BIG GOD.