You can forgive a trespass against you, you can not do so for something that happens to a group/society. Forgive me of my sin as I forgive those that trespass against "ME". A woman that has been raped can forgive her perpetrator, but she can not forgive that what the bad guy did was also to a society of rules. The state still has an obligation to punish those that break laws.
IOWs, John owes me 5 dollars, I can forgive that debt. But if John robs a store, I can still forgive him, but I have NO right to forgive what he did to the store and the added costs they have to absorb to cover the thief. If John owes you 5 dollars, I can not forgive that debt.
Women were crying, I imagine there was younger kids in the audience, they were wronged. Not all people are jaded to accept vulgarity like a duck shedding water. I am an old fellow, it still irks me to hear the filth. I don't like it, it is just the way I am. I would be one of those that want to see a kid actually pay for what he did.
I would want justice if I was there. Is that wrong? I would not be running to apologize for the mic being close enough for the thugs to take advantage of it and prank the congregation and laugh about it to their friends. Making it the fault of the sound operator is a joke... come on.
Psalm 58:10 (and 11) The righteous will rejoice when he sees the vengeance....[snip]...... And men will say, "Surely there is a reward for the righteous; Surely there is a God who judges on earth!
Odd, those verses suggest that it could actually be a teaching tool for all men (good and wicked) to learn there is an negative result for their wickedness.
P.S. I also agree, if they don't ask forgiveness, I am not obligated to even consider forgiving.
Luke 17:3
"If your brother or sister sins against you, rebuke them; and if they repent, forgive them.
Luke 17:4
Even if they sin against you seven times in a day and seven times come back to you saying ‘I repent,’ you must forgive them.”
What is the standard placed on us...
Luke 12:58 and Mathew 5:25
"When you are on the way to court with your adversary, settle your differences quickly. Otherwise, your accuser may hand you over to the judge, who will hand you over to an officer, and you will be thrown into prison.
You do what it takes (and you can be sure that is asking forgiveness and talking terms of that forgiveness)....