No one has said any such thing. You never answered what church you attended?Spurgeon, like the earlier Puritans, believed in the sovereignty of God but realized that God has chosen to use means, often time ordinary means like the Word and preaching. He had no trouble, and neither did the Puritans, preaching that you needed to repent or you needed to strive to get faith. Some of these Calvinists on this site would go nuts if you said in a post that you need to strive for faith. That is a flaw, not really of Calvinism, but of Calvinists.
All the Calvinists on here have posted consistent with the list of puritans you mentioned. I have my doubts about what you are posting. We have had others claim similar to you but in time we find out they were not what they claimed to be.
You can of course post what you want, but I am a bit skeptical.
Prov.27:5 Open rebuke is better than secret love.

