Matt Black said:On that basis, then, Hitler and Stalin should have been strangled at birth. Is that what you're arguing?
Based on what I wrote there is absolutly no basis for this comment as I was merely stating that we are not only influenced by God's perfect will. Influences counterproductive to God's will have and still do impact what goes on in this world. To say I was arguing anything is inane.
As to your friend judging Christ, he is an atheist and one must assume from your original posting that a significant part of his disbelief is based on his judgment that a God that was truly loving and just would not allow or do the things that have happened to people throughout history. Based on that and perhaps other judgments he has opted to not believe in God. He had to make at least one judgment in order to come to his disbelief. In his judgment he believes God can not be true because a loving God would not do these things. This is a judgment against God.