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A common theme among any unrepented sin is self justification. It is common among those listed in Revelation 22:15 which says, "For without (the gates of the city) are dogs, and sorcerers, and whoremongers, and murderers and idolaters, and whosoever shall love (love is love) and maketh a lie."
In not listing homosexuals, does God justify them, or are they included with the whoremongers?
Before I came to know Christ, I spent several years hanging out on the street corner and made several "friends" as those who do likewise. It did not turn out well for me. I have no need to associate with those people anymore. I find it hard to understand why any professed child of God would find a need to hang out in an LGBTQ bar unless it would be, as Christ did, to call sinners to repentance. In paying a cover charge to be in such a place, where there could be drag shows, only supports such behavior.
If I had a brother in Christ who had a family member killed in the shooting, I and the church where I am a member, would comfort him. We would not give him a false hope by telling him that maybe his family member turned their life over to Christ in last seconds of their life while they were bleeding to death.