Who can be born again? Any person can be born again. "God is not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance." (2Pt.3:9).
To be born again is to be saved. It is an event in one's life. There is no such thing as one who is born a Christian, i.e., a Christian from birth. One cannot be a Christian simply because they were born into a Christian family. One is not a Christian because they have been baptized or because they are a member of a church.
Jesus, in John chapter 3, was telling Nicodemus, a ruler of the Jews, a teacher and Rabbi, that inspite of all of his teaching and religion, he had to be born again or he could not enter into the kingdom of God. Nicodemus was confused. He said in verse 4:
"How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother's womb, and be born?"
Nicodemus, by his answer, was confused. How can one be born when he is old? Perhaps he was thinking of something like reincarnation. We are not quite sure. But Jesus explains further what it means to be born again.
John 3:6 That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.
There are two kinds of birth. Every person is born of the flesh--born physically. That is how we all got into this world. That is an event isn't it? Every person is born once, but not every person is born twice. Jesus said you must be born again. You must be born of the Spirit. Being born of the Spirit is the second birth. Not every one is born of the Spirit.
To be born of the Spirit I must come to Jesus Christ as a sinner. Admit that I have sinned and offended a holy God. Sin has separated us from God.
"The wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life" (Rom.6:23).
A wage is something I deserve. I deserve death, not just physical death, but eternal death--separation from God forever. That is my wage, that which I deserve because of my sin.
Romans 5:8 But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
--God demonstrated his love toward us in that while we were still sinners He died and paid the penalty that we deserve. The penalty of eternal death, the penalty for my sins--Jesus paid it all. He paid it with his blood when He died on the cross. It was the sacrifice of Jesus Christ that provided a way of salvation for us.
Romans 10:9 That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
--If I simply believe in that sacrifice and call upon the Lord Jesus as my Lord, He will save me, and give me the free gift of eternal life, and forgiveness of sins. I will become one of his children.
John 1:12-13 But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:
13 Which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God.
You must receive him as your Saviour. "As many as received him" to them gave he power to become the "sons of God" even to them that "beleive" on his name. Believing is having faith. Salvation is by grace through faith. It is provided by the grace of God, accepted by faith. By faith in the sacrifice of Christ, I am made His child; I am born into His family; I am born again.
"Which were born not of blood" One is not born into God's family by being born into a Christian family. It is not a blood relationship. It is a spiritual relationship.
"Which were born not of the will of the flesh" There is nothing that I can do of my own desires (like good works, reformation, etc.) that can save me. Salvation is by the grace of God. I can't add to by anything that I do in my flesh. It is not by the will of the flesh.
"Which were born not of the will of the man" It is not by man's will that one is born again. In other word's if man baptizes you as an infant that won't save you. If another man confirms you, forgives your sins, acts on your behalf, etc. it won't help.
"but are born of God" You must be born of God. You must be born again. You must be born into God's family. You must trust Christ as your Saviour. There must be a time and place in your life when you came to Christ, admitted to him that you were a sinner, in need of a Saviour, and called out in prayer for Christ to save you and come into your heart and forgive your sins and grant you His free gift of eternal life.
If you have never done that you need to be saved. You need to be born again. You need to pray and trust Christ as your Saviour. That is what it means to be born again. When a person is saved, they are born into God's family. I did that when I was 20 years old, on Oct 20 about 8:00 p.m. when at the Univeristy campus. Ever since that time I have known for sure that I have been saved, and on my way to heaven. I have no doubts about my salvation and that I am a child of God.
DHK