I am not Reformed.

[Van]

A Normal Calvinist does not believe Christ died as a ransom for all, 1 Timothy 2:6
A normal Calvinist does not believe many lost individuals seek the narrow door because that requires spiritual ability, understanding spiritual milk.
A normal Calvinist does not believe God is the author of sin, thus an open theist.

 

[Ben1445]

Good-bye - I have no further interest, time to shake the dust.

If that is a reference to Mark 6:11, I think it's a little dramatic and out of context.
But I agree. We aren't getting anywhere.