Spinach said:
After a semi-refreshing night's sleep, I changed my mind and came back to this thread.
I have done that before.
Welcome back to the thread that draws you back.
I find it insulting to presume that one group here is the only one following the Bible.
Lets hope at least one group is following the Bible. If you will allow me to speak truthfully, I would say that you are insulted and therefore ran off to cool down, because others didn't agree with you.
Every previous poster has offered some type of scriptural proof of their beliefs.
I wouldn't say every poster has done this, but I understand your point. Most feel like they have the backing of scripture. However, some will post things they have heard and felt are right. They may have that feeling because their pastor has said it, or maybe its a line they have always heard and felt it must be right, because it is heard so much. Like..."God helps those that help themselves". That line is said by Hollywood all the time in movies. When I point out to people that this line is not in the Bible, they do not believe me. But, really it is not.
I find that attitude to be arrogant and not charitable.
It would seem to me that you see charity as getting what you want. You said you have kids. If they wanted to play in a busy highway, would you let them do it in order to be charitable? Love is not getting what you want, but correcting others when they are wrong, even if they get mad and run off into their room, slam the door and not speak to you for a week. They may even say they hate you. Still, you know that your for them is pure and you did the right thing. Was you arrogant when you made that call? I'm sure you child was thinking that. Maybe you were, but it was still right.
I could go on and on with scripture as well, but it would fall on deaf ears, I'm afraid
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There is nothing to fear. In fact most of us would rather see verses than another's ideas. Verses speak louder than human logic.
I don't suppose any of us came to this thread with an open-mind and an open-heart, allowing the Lord to speak to us and teach us. We came to it with our minds made up and scripture to back it up. We set out to disagree, though we know no good will come of it. Why do we do this? Entertainment? Conversation? Venting frustrations?
Why do we do this? Some for all the reasons you just gave, and more. You may not have seen this, but you are in the "debate form". Some come here just for that reason. Debate forces you to KNOW what you believe. You will grow in the end. Few change their views. There have been around 5 that have left the free-will camp in the 4-5 years i have been here. That is not really that many. But the free-will side and the doctrines of grace side, both grow because they dig in scripture.
I do have an honest to goodness question-----If God decided before the world began who would be saved and who would go to Hell, then why the need for missionaries? Why the need for evangelists? Why the need for Paul?
Many reasons for this. This rejection is based on a fear. Many non-Calvinist think that if the doctrines are right, this means whats the use. Things happen...we are but robots.....no need to worry, just do what you will, for you are programmed to do so.
I don't have the time to address this in detail this morning, but would like to say, your fears should not have anything to do with you rejecting the doctrines. I mean, even if your fears are true and I could show you that this were the case just as you feared, and BTW your fears have no base, than you must take the doctrines based on the truth, not your fears. In others words, you must change, not the Bible.
Again I must say your fears have no base to stand on. I'm sure others will address why.
No, dear brethren, God didn't cast any one away.
no one goes to hell?
He will love all but not force Himself on any.
No one forces any one. But God does change the will. Have you ever heard of the salvation of Paul?
He will call to all, just as the parable where they were bidden to the wedding.
Yes...and this is what Calvinism believes.
All reject sadly. Than he goes out and draws them in
Indeed. Not based on that you are smarter than those that are non-believers, but based on Gods grace and grace alone. You too rejected God till God opened your eyes to the truth. Are you not glad that God didn't just leave you in your will to sin, but changed your heart? A new birth...A new life.