God chose me because I chose to follow Jesus and that is the truth of the matter.
Titus 3:2-6.
''For we ourselves were also one foolish, disobedient, deceived, serving various lusts and pleasures, living in malice and envy, hateful and hating one another......." That's what Paul and Titus were like. Are you so much better than them?
'.....But when the kindness and the love of God toward us appeared, not by works of righteousness which we have done, but according to His mercy He saved us........" It was not because Paul chose Christ, but because Christ chose Paul that he was saved (c.f. Acts of the Apostles 9:15).
"......through the washing of regeneration and renewing of the Holy Spirit, whom He poured out abundantly through Jesus Christ our Saviour." It was not through Paul 'choosing to follow' the Lord Jesus, but through the New Birth (
'water and the Spirit' - John 3:5).
The sad fact is that if God left it to people to choose to follow Jesus, the heaven would be empty and hell would be choc-a-bloc full.
John 3:19.
'And this is the condemnation, that the light has come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil.'
John 5:40.
'But you are not willing to come to Me that you may have life.'
Romans 3:10-12, 18.
'As it is written, "there is none righteous, no, not one;
There is none who understands; there is none who seeks after God.
They have all turned aside; they have together become unprofitable............
There is no fear of God before their eyes."'
Romans 9:16.
'So then, it is not of him who wills, nor of him who runs, but of God who shows mercy.'
1 Corinthians 1:18, 21.
'For the message of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God...........For since, in the wisdom of God, the world did not know God........'
1 Corinthians 2:14.
'But the natural man does not receive the things of the Spirit of God, for they are foolishness to him; nor can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.'
Ephesians 2:4-5.
'But God, who is rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us, even when we were dead in trespasses, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved).
It is because men and women will not, of themselves, trust in Christ for salvation, that God, in His mercy has decreed salvation for a vast crowd of sinners, so vast that no one can count them (Revelation 7:9-10). Because fallen man is dead in trespasses and sins, God gives them new birth. Look now at John 3:1-8.
The teaching of the Lord Jesus as He spoke to Nicodemus could hardly be more clear; the mighty power that gives new life to sinners comes from God, the Holy Spirit, and from Him alone. We see this first of all in the very term,
born again. Our Lord could have used a variety of terms for this which Nicodemus might have found easier to understand; “You must start again….”, “…..take a new path”, “…..make a new beginning”. But all these terms involve things that we can do for ourselves. The one event in our lives over which we have no control is our birth. The time, the place, our weight and so forth are absolutely nothing that we ourselves can influence. The time simply comes for us to arrive and we are born.
We can then go on to look at the Greek word translated here as ‘again.’ This word,
anothen, can also mean’ from above.' Indeed, that is its meaning in every other instance where it appears in John’s Gospel. For example, later in this very chapter (v31) John uses the word when he says,
‘He who comes from above is above all’.
Anothen appears in Matthew 27:51 when, as Jesus died,
‘The veil of the temple was torn in two from top to bottom’, and in James 1:17 where we are told,
‘…..every perfect gift is from above’. Only in Galatians 4:9 does
anothen clearly mean
again. Here in John 3:3, most translations have rightly rendered the word as
again because of the context. Nicodemus obviously understood it to mean that since he replied (v4),
“How can a man be born when he is old? Can he enter into his mother’s womb and be born a second time?” Now it may well be that the conversation took place in Aramaic, not Greek, but it seems to me that the Apostle John chose the word (under the influence of the Holy Spirit) deliberately to bring out this second meaning. “Nicodemus”, our Lord seems to be saying, “You need a birth that all your learning and religious observance cannot give you; you need a birth that comes from above”.
The same point can be seen in our key verse,
‘That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit’. As we have seen, the word
flesh (Gk.
sarx), when it is contrasted with
Spirit (Gk.
pneuma) usually refers to sinful human nature (eg. Rom. 8:4ff). What this verse tells us is that anything that comes from Man, from the
flesh, is flawed at source, and to suggest that there can be any human agency in the New Birth is to say that the flesh can give birth to spirit. Why is this? Why is Man so helpless to do anything to make himself right with God? Consider Ephesians 2:1;
‘And you [God] made alive, who were dead in trespasses and sins’. Mankind’s condition is one of spiritual death. Now, it is all very well calling on men and women to put their trust in Christ; it is all very well to tell them how wonderful it is to be a Christian, to warn them of the perils of Hell and to entice them with the blessings of Heaven- all these things are right and proper- but if they are dead, then unless Almighty God breathes new life into their hearts, all your efforts will ultimately be in vain because dead people can’t hear. Gospel preaching is certainly of the utmost importance (1Cor 1:21) as we shall see when we come to look at the instrumental means of the New Birth, but only as God uses the preached word to bring sinners to salvation.
Just in case you are not convinced by the evidence presented so far, consider John 1:11-13;
‘He came to His own (i.e. His Jewish compatriots, God’s chosen people under the Old Covenant)
, and His own did not receive him. But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, even to those who believe on His name: who were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God’. Do you see what this is saying? Coming from a Christian family (“blood”) cannot make you born again; nor your own fallen will (“the flesh”); nor being called to the front and having some minister or evangelist pouring water over you, laying hands on you or praying over you (“the will of man”). It is God, and God alone who saves. Look at Romans 9:16;
‘So then, it is not of him who wills, nor of him who runs, but of God Who shows mercy’, or James 1:18;
‘Of His own will He brought us forth by the word of truth.’. Finally, to see how the New Birth comes about in practice, let us turn to a few verses in Acts:-
Acts 2:47b:
‘And the Lord added to the church daily those who were being saved’. Who added people to the church? Was it the Apostles, with their signs and wonders (v43), or the people themselves making ‘decisions for Christ’? No, it was God Himself drawing men and women to the Lord Jesus (John 6:44).
Acts 14:48b:
‘And as many as had been appointed to eternal life believed’. Not one more nor one fewer, but exactly those to whom God gave new birth.
Acts 16:14:
‘Now a certain woman named Lydia heard us. She was a seller of purple from the city of Thyatira, who worshipped God’. Lydia was a
God-fearer, a Gentile who attended the Jewish synagogue and tried to follow the moral teaching of the Old Testament, but she still needed to be born again, so did Paul open her heart to respond to God? Or did she open her own heart as she listened to Paul? Not at all.
‘The Lord opened her heart to heed the things spoken to her by Paul’.
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