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Easy question first ... I could, but I am not.
Your first error towards Reformed Theology is demanding a specific wording to satisfy you. Let me respond in kind:
Where in scripture is the verse that says that everyone without exception has been forgiven of their sins. I will now nit pick any verse you present as not containing the exact wording that I have chosen to demand. (This is what you are doing with Paul.) You are demanding an exact phrase as if that phrase were the heart of Reformed doctrine. It is not. The heart of Reformed Doctrine is that men are incapable of coming to God without supernatural help from God, and God makes the first move. It was a response to the semi-Pelegian view that people had enough innate goodness to be able to make the first move towards God in salvation.
If you really want someplace where Paul teaches this, how about:
John 6:44 “No one can come to me” ...
- [Romans 3:9-12 NIV] 9 What shall we conclude then? Do we have any advantage? Not at all! For we have already made the charge that Jews and Gentiles alike are all under the power of sin. 10 As it is written: "There is no one righteous, not even one; 11 there is no one who understands; there is no one who seeks God. 12 All have turned away, they have together become worthless; there is no one who does good, not even one."
- [Ephesians 2:1-3 NIV] 1 As for you, you were dead in your transgressions and sins, 2 in which you used to live when you followed the ways of this world and of the ruler of the kingdom of the air, the spirit who is now at work in those who are disobedient. 3 All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our flesh and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature deserving of wrath.
- aka “Total Inability”
John 6:44 ...”unless the Father who sent me draws him” ...
- [Romans 9:8 NIV] 8 In other words, it is not the children by physical descent who are God's children, but it is the children of the promise who are regarded as Abraham's offspring.
- [Romans 9:11-13 NIV] 11 Yet, before the twins were born or had done anything good or bad--in order that God's purpose in election might stand: 12 not by works but by him who calls--she was told, "The older will serve the younger." 13 Just as it is written: "Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated."
- [Romans 9:15-18 NIV] 15 For he says to Moses, "I will have mercy on whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion." 16 It does not, therefore, depend on human desire or effort, but on God's mercy. 17 For Scripture says to Pharaoh: "I raised you up for this very purpose, that I might display my power in you and that my name might be proclaimed in all the earth." 18 Therefore God has mercy on whom he wants to have mercy, and he hardens whom he wants to harden.
- [Romans 9:21-24 NIV] 21 Does not the potter have the right to make out of the same lump of clay some pottery for special purposes and some for common use? 22 What if God, although choosing to show his wrath and make his power known, bore with great patience the objects of his wrath--prepared for destruction? 23 What if he did this to make the riches of his glory known to the objects of his mercy, whom he prepared in advance for glory-- 24 even us, whom he also called, not only from the Jews but also from the Gentiles?
- [Ephesians 2:4-5 NIV] 4 But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, 5 made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions--it is by grace you have been saved.
- [2 Thessalonians 2:13 NIV] 13 But we ought always to thank God for you, brothers and sisters loved by the Lord, because God chose you as firstfruits to be saved through the sanctifying work of the Spirit and through belief in the truth.
- aka “Irresistible Grace”
John 6:44 ... “and I will raise them up at the last day.”
- [2 Corinthians 1:21-22 NIV] 21 Now it is God who makes both us and you stand firm in Christ. He anointed us, 22 set his seal of ownership on us, and put his Spirit in our hearts as a deposit, guaranteeing what is to come.
- [2 Corinthians 5:4-5 NIV] 4 For while we are in this tent, we groan and are burdened, because we do not wish to be unclothed but to be clothed instead with our heavenly dwelling, so that what is mortal may be swallowed up by life. 5 Now the one who has fashioned us for this very purpose is God, who has given us the Spirit as a deposit, guaranteeing what is to come.
- [Ephesians 1:11-14 NIV] 11 In him we were also chosen, having been predestined according to the plan of him who works out everything in conformity with the purpose of his will, 12 in order that we, who were the first to put our hope in Christ, might be for the praise of his glory. 13 And you also were included in Christ when you heard the message of truth, the gospel of your salvation. When you believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, 14 who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God's possession--to the praise of his glory.
- [Philippians 1:4-6 NIV] 4 In all my prayers for all of you, I always pray with joy 5 because of your partnership in the gospel from the first day until now, 6 being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.
- aka. “Preservation of the Saints”
The question was, why do you have different methods of interpretation for the same chapter?” You have a literal interpretation for John 6:44 but there is not a Reformed believer alive today who will present verse 40 as literal.
John 6:37-40
37 All that the Father giveth me shall come to me; and him that cometh to me I will in no wise cast out.
38 For I came down from heaven, not to do mine own will, but the will of him that sent me.
39 And this is the Father's will which hath sent me, that of all which he hath given me I should lose nothing, but should raise it up again at the last day.
40 And this is the will of him that sent me, that every one which seeth the Son, and believeth on him, may have everlasting life: and I will raise him up at the last day.
Here Jesus said two things that the Father wills
1) every one who sees the son and 2) believes on him may have everlasting life.
Here is what is said in John 6:44
John 6:44-47
44 No man can come to me, except the Father which hath sent me draw him: and I will raise him up at the last day.
45 It is written in the prophets, And they shall be all taught of God. Every man therefore that hath heard, and hath learned of the Father, cometh unto me.
46 Not that any man hath seen the Father, save he which is of God, he hath seen the Father.
47 Verily, verily, I say unto you, He that believeth on me hath everlasting life.
So how does the Father draw? Through the words of the prophets. They all have been taught of God but not all have learned of the Father. This is key because Jesus is presenting himself as the “Son of God” and declaring that God is his Father. The Jews did not know God as Father in the OT and now here is Jesus declaring that only those who can be taught that Jesus is the Son of God can have eternal life. They must believe that God is his Father and that He came down from him.
At the end of this discourse when all ad forsaken him he asked his disciples if they also would go away, to which Peter responded with to whom shall we go, we believe thou art the Christ, the son of the living God.
BTW, just a short time later Peter and none of the 12 believed that Jesus rose from the dead. The death, burial, and resurrection was not what these men in John 6 were expected to believe.
The Reformed are teaching things that are not true.