The divine intervention that enables one to come to Christ by faith is not given to all:
Jn. 6:64 But there are some of you that believe not. For Jesus knew from the beginning who they were that believed not, and who should betray him.
65 And he said, Therefore said I unto you, that no man can come unto me, except it were given unto him of my Father.
Not all are given by the Father to come to the Son but ALL who are given do come to him and NONE "of all" given are lost:
All that the Father giveth me shall come to me; and him that cometh to me I will in no wise cast out.
38 For I came down from heaven, not to do mine own will, but the will of him that sent me.
39 And this is the Father’s will which hath sent me, that of all which he hath given me I should lose nothing, but should raise it up again at the last day.
All are commanded by God this why a sin is a sin. The command itself is the sufficient intervention, some obey some freely reject.
Jesus doesn't tell repented men to repent, he tells people who need to repent, to repent.
Romans 11
22Behold then the kindness and severity of God; to those who fell, severity, but to you, God’s kindness, if you continue in His kindness; otherwise you also will be cut off.
The offer is out to everyone. They reject , they accept.
You keep looking for excuse a special ingredient, status. There is none.
Romans 1
18For the wrath of God is revealed from heaven against all ungodliness and unrighteousness of men who suppress the truth in unrighteousness,
19because that which is known about God is evident within them; for God made it evident to them.
20For since the creation of the world His invisible attributes, His eternal power and divine nature, have been clearly seen, being understood through what has been made, so that they are without excuse.
NO EXCUSE.
Its not because God didn't push a button, Its because THEY didn't. They have the truth, they suppress it.
The worst of the worst had everything they needed to be the best of the best.
God is not Evil.
James 1
13Let no one say when he is tempted, “I am being tempted by God”; for God cannot be tempted by evil, and He Himself does not tempt anyone.
14But each one is tempted when he is carried away and enticed by his own lust.
15Then when lust has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and when sin is accomplished, it brings forth death.
16Do not be deceived, my beloved brethren.
17Every good thing given and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shifting shadow.
1 Corinthians 10
13No temptation
c has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted
d beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted,
e he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.
God won't allow anyone to be tempted beyond what they handle.
No excuses. When you sin its your fault.
There is no license to sin. Because God gave a license to NOT SIN. And when you do sin. Its not because your lacking a brain or a heart, Its not because your ankle is evil or your shoulder is a liar.
If it the ball was solely in God's court we would be telling God to repent.
We would see a sinner, well he can't fix himself, "God repent" and give this guy what he needs.
No. ....... that's not the way it works.