Well Said
JRG39402 said:
I hope nonbelievers don't stumble onto this board because they would be more likely to ask about the anger that lies within you than the hope.
Exactly! Some of the harshness coming from the men who are trying to defend Calvinism is pretty tame compared to what goes on at other sites.
I have found that these blogs reveal much about the character of those who participate. No one is looking for perfection, but with some you find a regular pattern of harshness, name-calling, backbiting and vitriol.
One can say difficult things and disagree sharply, but it can be done charitably. Many who post at these "Christian" blogs have not learned this.
Late last year (2006) I debated the Lordship position with Nathan Busenitz. Nathan is the personal assistant to Dr. John MacArthur. Our on line debate took place at Pulpit Magazine. This is a site owned and administered by MacArthur's Grace to You ministry.
MacArthur's staff became aware of my book and they began a series of articles (some written by MacArthur) on Lordship Salvation to shore up their base and position.
Nathan contacted me and invited me to discuss/debate the issue at their site. After a period where I observed their site and some interaction I joined the discussion. Nathan and I debated Lordship Salvation over about six weeks through numerous articles. Nathan also did a five-day review of my book, which also debated. (Although he only dealt with one chapter of my book)
I told you that to say this: Nathan and I disagree sharply on the Lordship Salvation interpretation of the Gospel, but there was never a harsh word spoken between us. Numerous men on both sides of the Lordship issue publicly commented on the good example Nathan and I set for addressing difficult subjects in a gracious manner.
If Nathan had spoken to me like some of the men here do, I would have thanked him for his time and checked out. Nathan would have done the same with me had I behaved badly.
My pattern is to discuss issues, but once men resort to personal attacks, etc. I ignore them and either carry on or move on. This way I protect myself from being dragged down to the point where I'd let the "flesh" get involved.
Anyway, when posting I always keep this passage in mind:
"Let your speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man," (
Colossians 4:6).
LM