Yes the bible is clear and it would help if you did not bring your obvious bias into the text, but you did and that is what causes you to misread the text.
I do not think that happened at all.
First mistake is that you still think God "elected" a select group before creation.
Yes God has set His love on the elect before time. I will post verses for others who enjoy the scripture;
2 tim1:9 Who hath saved us, and called us with an holy calling, not according to our works, but according to his own purpose and grace, which was given us in Christ Jesus before the world began,
Silverhair does not seem to embrace this truth at all. This grace was given to the called ELECT,
before the world was. perhaps he looks at sites that oppose truth so he skips over clear verses like this, Eph1.
Second one, you want to limit who God can foreknow "All people are not foreknown by God." Is your god not omniscient?
No one limits God. God foreknows those He has purposed to save, out from among mankind. Romans 8 is totally clear.
One reason for your confusion is you do not begin to understand the difference of omniscience, and biblical Foreknowledge. It is two different things
God knows all those that will freely trust in His son
Yes, psalm 14 tells us it is not one!
2 The Lord looked down from heaven upon the children of men,
to see if there were any that did understand, and seek God.
3 They are all gone aside, they are all together become filthy: there is none that doeth good, no, not one.
So your manmade ideas do not match the biblical teaching at all.
and those that do trust in His son are predestined to be conformed to the image of His son. Just as the text shows us.
The text says nothing about these mystery men who you suggest trust the Son...there are none that do.
Those that will trust will be called,
This is not found in scripture. If you intend to devise your own brand of salvation you can say what you want. I and others will stick to the text.
justified and glorified. Not because they are your pre chosen "elect,
If you deny the truth of election, it casts some doubt on where you stand, does it not? Election is clearly taught in both Ot. and NT.
If you dismiss it, I think you need to study a bit more.
but because the gospel message is the means used to call people to Himself.
at least you got this right!
Third error is that you will have to justify your "spiritual corpses" with the fact that both Cain and Abel were able to make real choices in regard to God.
Cain was a reprobate. God had saved Abel. It was the work of God in the heart, not choice of man that saved.
Abel drew near to God and Cain was given the choice by God.
God saved Abel, Cain remained a rebel.
Rather odd for those "spiritual corpses" you speak of.
Abel was given life. he went from death to life.
So I have no problem understanding the text just as it is written and I do not have to read some man-made philosophy into it.
You have many serious problems from what I can see. I am not here for that. I am here to learn and help others see truth. You are a bit contentious and it does not seem that you can interact with scripture properly. Maybe some others can help you out of this slump and help you come to truth. Truth is not for everyone but maybe God will send help your way.