Originally posted by Saint:
Hi Mike - Thank you for your post. One thing I find very frustrating in regard to the WoFers is their stringent refusal to hear anything other than what they are taught in their "churches".
You mean like anytime you try to ask her a question about what she believes, she immediately condemns you as a Hank Hannegraff fanatic?
I get that one all the time and I don't even listen to him.
When I try to talk to my sister she dismisses me. Is it that they are taught that to listen to any other Christian's view is to entertain a "negative confession" or being guilty of "not being in the faith"?
I think part of the problem is that we haven't done a very good job of reaching out to them. I think that they feel like they're being attacked and feel like they have to go on the defensive.
I don't think it's so much a matter of negative confession, but of simply being insecure in their faith because they haven't been properly discipled and now don't have a foundation for their faith.
I know this is what happened in my case and very nearly made me walk away from the faith altogether.
I simply do not know how to reach her.
The best thing you can do for her is to love her, pray for her and try to meet her where she's at. Find common ground and go from there.
If you discuss doctrine with her, just try to keep it as much about Jesus, His nature, the cross, and the nature of salvation.
The rest will follow soon enough.
I believe that prayer is the best source of power in this predicament.
Absolutely.
Prayer, discernment and knowing the word of God.
I also have the same "suspicions" about the Prayer of Jabezz stuff and the "Purpose driven life" I get a lttle bent out of shape when people suggest that one read this or that book. How about reading the Word of God and letting that be the source of all Godly truth?!
I have to be honest and say that I don't really know enough about "The Prayer of Jabezz" to comment on it. I'm aware of it (how could we not be? That's all I've heard about for the last four years) but I don't really know enough about it to say.
There are good books out there. God does use some of them to speak to us.
The real question is whether or not they're something that's worthy of our time.
The only thing that really bothers me about the "Jabezz" books and things like that is that I worry that we're dumbing doctrine down with pop-theology.
Everybody has or has read a Max Lucado book (and this isn't a shot at Max Lucado), but how often do you hear people talking about Spurgeon?
Instead of the "Prayer of Jabezz" or, God forbid, "Could You Not Tarry One Hour", how about "The Power of Prayer in a Believer's Life" by Spurgeon or Merton's "Contemplative Prayer"?