Eloidal,
I think you and I may agree on some things, so I understand where you are coming from. You see, I personally abstain from many things due to my past. I was not raised in a Church on a consistent basis and I was brought up in the public school system. I came from a single parent family where the parent worked nights. I was saved at 22 years of age and when I got saved I wanted to purge my life of everything. What many perceived as legalism, I had to do in order to not slide back into the life I came from. I thought that everyone should follow my pattern because those things (movies, TV, music, etc.) were just many of the things that lead me down the wrong path. In the time since my salvation, I have come to realize that although some things might take me down the wrong path or hinder my walk with God, they may do not the same to another brother or sister in Christ. It took me some time to realize this, but it was an important revelation. I still abstain from a great deal of stuff (Secular music, secular TV and many other “normal” activities), but this is because they affect MY walk with God. This may not be true for another Christian because these things will not send them down the wrong path. It is ok to enjoy life (as long as it is not in direct conflict with Scripture) and we need to discover our own strengths and weaknesses. This is exactly what Paul’s argument is in the Bible (regarding the weak and strong brother). I cannot and should not decide what is right or wrong for another Christian, so long as it is not in direct violation of scripture. This may or may not be of relevance to you, but I hope you are able to take something positive away from it. I can see you are truly concerned about your fellow brethren and for this I commend you. God bless.