Hello, Winman.
Jesus said:
Those whom the Father gives to the Son (through election) will come to the Son. IMHO that means that none of those whom the Father gives to Son will choose not to come to the Son. I believe the Bible teaches this in many other passages as well, not just John 6.
As far as rejecting, no one whom the Father gives to the Son can reject the Son. Those who reject the Son are those who already are in sin and continue in sin. Paul wrote:
I agree and accept all of this, though I understand it differently. I believe God in his foreknowledge could foresee all those who would believe in time and chose these persons. It is these persons he gave to Christ.
We are elect according to the foreknowledge of the Father;
1 Pet 1:2 Elect according to the foreknowledge of God the Father, through sanctification of the Spirit, unto obedience and sprinkling of the blood of Jesus Christ: Grace unto you, and peace, be multiplied.
Now whatever you believe, you must believe that we are elected according to God's foreknowledge, something God knew before it actually happened. I believe this is faith. A good example is Nathanael in John 1.
Jhn 1:45 Philip findeth Nathanael, and saith unto him, We have found him, of whom Moses in the law, and the prophets, did write, Jesus of Nazareth, the son of Joseph.
46 And Nathanael said unto him, Can there any good thing come out of Nazareth? Philip saith unto him, Come and see.
47 Jesus saw Nathanael coming to him, and saith of him, Behold an Israelite indeed, in whom is no guile!
48 Nathanael saith unto him,
Whence knowest thou me? Jesus answered and said unto him,
Before that Philip called thee, when thou wast under the fig tree, I saw thee.
49 Nathanael answered and saith unto him, Rabbi, thou art the Son of God; thou art the King of Israel.
50 Jesus answered and said unto him, Because I said unto thee, I saw thee under the fig tree,
believest thou? thou shalt see greater things than these.
I believe this passage is a view of God's foreknowledge. Look at the terms used, it says "Jesus saw Nathanael COMING TO HIM.
Notice how Nathanael was surprised and asked how Jesus KNEW HIM.
Note how Jesus called Nathanael an ISRAELITE INDEED, IN WHOM THERE IS NO GUILE. Compare this to Romans 2:28-29 where a true Jew is a child of Abraham, one who has faith whose praise is from God.
There is more scripture that shows God knows who will believe and who will not.
Jhn 6:64 But there are some of you that believe not.
For Jesus knew from the beginning who they were that believed not, and who should betray him.
This verse directly tells us that Jesus knew from the beginning who would believe not. If Jesus knew from the beginning who would not believe, he would also know who believes by simple process of elimination.
So, there you are, you are directly told in scripture that God knows who will believe and who will not.
Speaking from my heart, this is a very difficult passage to contemplate. It caused me great consternation for a number of years. I had little difficulty in accepting the Reformed view of election. I believe it is biblical and the right interpretation of scripture. For me the issue was the idea that God may be unfair and unjust, if not capricious. Did Pharaoh ever have a chance? How about Judas Iscariot, who was prophesied as a son of perdition? I had to make the decision to trust God at His word. He does harden the hearts of some. We do not know who he hardens or for what reasons. Those things are secret (Deut. 29:29). What I am convinced of is those whom he hardens are guilty of rejecting his call to repentance (Acts 17:30).
God did not make Pharaoh or Judas sin, God does not tempt ANY man to sin.
Jam 1:13 Let no man say when he is tempted, I am tempted of God: for God cannot be tempted with evil,
neither tempteth he any man:
14 But every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed.
15 Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death.
God is good, he is not the author of evil. However, God knew beforehand that Pharaoh would rebel against him and never repent, and so God justly used Pharaoh to demonstrate his power. God did not cause Judas to betray Jesus, but he knew he would, and allowed him to do so to bring about Jesus being crucified for our sins.
I know you may not agree with this, but I hope it explains the biblical reasons why I hold to my conviction.
You are correct, I do not agree. I do not believe that God determines who will be saved and who will be not unconditionally. God knows who will believe and who will not, and he has chosen all those that believe.