As far as we can tell, the theif on the cross was saved by faith.. not to mention the fact that he had God in human flesh right next to him talking to him.
Is that how God saved you?
did He come down from heaven, knock on your door and tell you that you were saved..
or was it maybe something a little less direct than that, like perhaps the bible?
I am pretty sure that RCC theology would tell you that the theif on the cross was saved by faith.
But it doesnt get rid of the fact that in Gods word, it says that baptism is for the remission of sins. The exeption is not the rule. The bible lays it out plainly for us to see.
For adults, it is as you say. Believe, repent, be baptized---only the catholic and lutheran would add to that "for the remission of sins" and we would add that because the word of God says that this is the reason.
Infants are a different topic altogether. I understand why you all dont believe baptism is for infants. If its just a work that we do for God, then you are absolutely right. An infant cannot really repent with understanding like we can.. but even the ability to repent is a gift, no?
But we believe that baptism is a work God does for us (using men) and that is where we differ. Since we view baptism as a gift that God does for us, then we think excluding infants is like not bringing infants to Jesus when he says "let the children come".
God has always attatched means. In fact, he used works to save you-the preaching of the gospel. It had sound and eardrums and brainwaves all as the means of grace for you.
Baptism is also a means of grace. It is the visible gospel. It is us being attached to Christs death and ressurrection. it is no light thing.