ReformedBaptist
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Did the OP ever reply to their post and comments? If not, it was just a drive by.
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Uh- yeah, the OP actually "drove by" two more times, for a total of three, and throwing 'missiles' from the same particular book, each time.ReformedBaptist said:Did the OP ever reply to their post and comments? If not, it was just a drive by.
annsni said:Well, atleast you have stuck in my mind "Tradition!!" for the day! LOL Thanks!
But I say "right on" to all that you've said. There's a huge difference between tradition and idolatry and if someone can't see that, then I think that's their problem, not mine.
Now I must begin to get ready for our big tradition at our church - the staff Christmas party!! Woo-hoo!! Good food, good fellowship, gift swap, decorating the newest staff members by the kids, Pastor reading the kids a story as they sit on his lap and all around him then getting our bonuses! Yes, I'd definitely be sad to miss out on that!!![]()
DHK said:If Christmas trees are not objects of worship why do you demand that you need to have a Christmas tree in your houses or wherever, in your celebration of the birth of Christ?
DHK said:If it is not an object of worship or has nothing at all to do with worship, then you won't have any problem removing them from your houses will you?
DHK said:The Bible says "Give me your heart" That is what the Lord wants. Your hearts have been given to a tree.
DHK said:You cannot honestly say that 100% of your hearts have been given to the Lord, as long as your emotions hang on to that tree and you can't get rid of it. It is an idol hanging around your neck, dragging you down in your spiritual life.
DHK said:Do you also sing:
O Christmas Tree; O Christmas Tree, etc.
It is a prayer to a tree, if you sing it. That is idolatry in its purest form. Worship belongs to God alone. Singing praises to a tree is definitely idolatry.
DHK said:The Bible says much about marriages, weddings, betrothals, and things related to it. You need to study your Bible more.
DHK said:You seem to be woefully unknowledgeable about the Biblical teaching of legalism and worldliness, both of which you have displayed a gross misunderstanding. Maybe you should try again. You don't have the definitions even close.
DHK said:By your standards Paul was a very worldly man because you don't understand the Biblical concept of worldliness.
annsni said:I will remove the tree when the Holy Spirit tells me to - not when a faceless name on the internet does. I have never once worshiped my tree nor anything else in my home. If my tree were to burn up, I'd not be heartbroken or forlorn.
annsni said:Who says we cannot get rid of our tree? I've never said that. I've said I WILL not get rid of my tree because it's not an idol but a tradition we have at our home. Just as much as the "I'm Special" plate at birthdays is a tradition around here. Yeah, I can get rid of it but why? Just because someone is judging me on how I celebrate days? That's just ridiculous.
FriendofSpurgeon said:I just knew you were a closet liberal. Now we know. First a Christmas tree and then a Christmas party where you are swapping gifts. At church, no less. You probably wear pants and watch TV too.
Fair enough, but most people can't. They are too emotionally attached to. As some have admitted to already, it is a tradition that they are not willing to forsake. Christ condemned traditions, not all, but certain traditions.Martin said:==I can't answer that question for everyone, but I can answer for myself. I don't "have" to have a Christmas tree. Most years I want to have one. The years I don't want to, I don't. I think they are pretty to look at just like other decorations around the house.
Pictures of my family and other secular things have nothing to do with religious festivals and with worship. I have explained this many times. It seems as if you still do not understand what Paul means when he says "Be not conformed to this world," i.e., worldliness.==For the same reason you don't remove pictures of your family (etc) from your house. We enjoy having them around. Just because they are in the house does not mean they are idols or objects of worship.
Romans 12:1-2 I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.==That (underlined portion) has to be one of the silliest things I have read in a long time. I don't know anyone who has given their hearts to a, often plastic, tree. Maybe your comment reflects the fact that this entire thread is silly and certainly should not have gone on for 17+ pages.
As you say, you can get rid of it; but judging by the responses of many others they cannot. They are too emotionally attached to the Christmas tree to get rid of it. When it becomes so attached to a religious observance that one cannot get rid of it, and at the same time is a part of a religious observance (the birth of Christ), then I would consider it an idol. I don't see how one could consider it anything else but an idol. It is not simply a decoration. If you (others) were simply content with decorations, why do decorations require the presence of a Christmas tree in imitation of the rest of the world? Do they also set up Santa Claus as well? How far does it go? This is the imitation of the world. This is what the Lord hates, and what he says: "for whosoever shall be a friend of the world is the enemy of God." What do you think James meant when he said that?==Actually I can. My life is devoted to the Lord God and not a Christmas tree or anything, or anyone, else. Christmas trees are decoration.
I am glad you don't like the song. However you at least admit that it is a love song. But Christians say that this is the season when they are expressing their love to Christ. Why then would they be expressing their love to a tree? Does that make any sense at all? Again, a form of idolatry. God demands all of our love. In fact our love to our family is to seem as hate in comparison to our love to God.==Actually I don't sing "O Christmas Tree" because I never liked that song. However one look at the lyrics shows something of a problem with your argument. The lyrics are no more idolatry than a love song is idolatry.
1. There is nothing wrong with a wedding ring because it is purely symbolic, and has nothing to do with paganism.==Actually you need to go back and read what I was saying a bit more carefully. I was simply turning your argument back on you. I don't see anything wrong with wedding rings. My point, which you clearly missed, was that just because something is not directly approved in Scripture does not mean it is wrong and just because pagans use something does not mean it is an object of pagan worship or that those who use it are following after the pagan world.
Legalism has to do with salvation. The legalistic person, like the Judaizers in Acts 15, and in the Book of Galatians, tried to maintain that one needed to keep the Law and be circumcised in order to be saved. That is an example of legalism. It is adding works to "salvation by faith alone." One might say that the Church of Christ has become a legalistic religion for adding baptism as a requirement to be saved.==Okay, if you think legalism is something other than adding rules/laws that are not found in Scripture then what is legalism? I would be interested in your definition.
This is the statement I made:==That is an amazing statement. However considering the fact that you clearly missed the whole point of my argument I don't think it is worth responding to.
I am not the one directly connecting it to those things, but only indirectly. In Jeremiah it simply says "Learn not the way of the heathen," and then it describes what the heathen did.I find it interesting that you failed to respond to a good number of my statements. You have yet to prove how the modern use of Christmas trees is connected to baal worship or Jeremiah 10.
I know most don't agree with me. They don't because they are too emotionally attached to their traditions. Before I used the illustration personally, but it doesn't have to be personal, does it.You have failed to show how/why you are connecting drunkeness with Christmas trees (beyond your personal experiences). You have failed to support your presuppositions with Scripture, you just keep repeating the same arguments based on the same presuppositions. Do you not realize that I, and many other Christians on this board, don't agree with your presuppositions?
In one of my posts I gave you the example of Gideon cutting down the grove of trees that enshrined the idol of Baal.You said:
The Israelites, even when they did not worship at them, were still commanded to cut them down. Why? They were heathen objects of worship. They were associated with paganism.
I asked for a text reference so that I could examine the context of your proof text. Yet you failed to provide that. Why? Will it, like Jeremiah 10, only prove to cause you more problems?
You failed to explain how your assertion that "
the word grove/groves used in relation to Baal or idol worship. Trees in the Bible are often connected to idolatrous worship" relates to the modern use of Christmas trees.
As you can see, my main argument is from Scripture, the Scripture that deals with: Be not conformed with this world. Antiaging line of attack was mostly the historical line. I agree with to some extent, though I think his history is a bit off. But that is not the focus of my argument.So your replies are providing more questions than answers. I know your position, so you don't have to keep repeating it. What I am seeking to see is how you deal with the very serious problems with your position.
Hopefully your future replies will be more productive.
And what's wrong with a worship ceremony celebrating the Incarnation of our Blessed Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, the Word becoming Flesh for our sake and our salvation,the Light of the World stepping down into darkness? If there's a form of Christianity that has a problem with such worship, then it's a form I've never encountered before and would not wish to. Furthermore, at my wedding, the rings were used in conjunction with a worship ceremony: our wedding service; the rings were exchanged at the same time as Mrs B and I exchanged vows in the presence of God.DHK said:2. There is nothing wrong with a wedding ring because it is not connected with a worship ceremony (the birth of Christ),
And how, pray tell, do you know this?DHK said:Put that in a modern context.
I have a RCC family living on one side of me and an Orthodox family living on the other side of me. They both put up Christmas trees, and other such decorations. They are both unsaved.
DHK said:2. There is nothing wrong with a wedding ring because it is not connected with a worship ceremony (the birth of Christ),
DHK said:Fair enough, but most people can't. They are too emotionally attached to. As some have admitted to already, it is a tradition that they are not willing to forsake. Christ condemned traditions, not all, but certain traditions.
Mark 7:9 And he said unto them, Full well ye reject the commandment of God, that ye may keep your own tradition.
--The commandment of God in this case is worldliness. It is separation of the world, something that he stressed to the nation of Israel over and over again via their dress, diet, laws, sacrificial system, etc. They were a called out nation separated from all other nations. We also are called out, separated. We are to be separated from this world. We are to be in this world, but not of this world.
Pictures of my family and other secular things have nothing to do with religious festivals and with worship. I have explained this many times. It seems as if you still do not understand what Paul means when he says "Be not conformed to this world," i.e., worldliness.
Romans 12:1-2 I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
--Paul beseeches us to present our bodies as living sacrifices to the Lord. That is, that God would have 100% of our lives for his service. In addition, verse two indicates that the first step to doing that is not to be conformed to this world.
One preacher said that the most common sin among our society today is covetousness. He may be right. We walk through the shopping malls wishing for things we cannot have, probably more at this time of year more than at any other. If that be true then Christ does does not have 100% of our hearts does he? It is not such a ridiculous statement as you think. Very few people have given God 100% of their heart, and I think they would be quite arrogant to say that they have. There are many things that most Christians are not willing to give up. Christmas trees is just a good example of one of those things.
Jesus said:
Matthew 8:20 And Jesus saith unto him, The foxes have holes, and the birds of the air have nests; but the Son of man hath not where to lay his head.
--It is apparent that Christ never had a Christmas tree.
Are you willing to follow the example of Christ, the example of the Apostles? (you meaning the majority of the posters on this board)
I am glad you don't like the song. However you at least admit that it is a love song. But Christians say that this is the season when they are expressing their love to Christ. Why then would they be expressing their love to a tree? Does that make any sense at all? Again, a form of idolatry. God demands all of our love. In fact our love to our family is to seem as hate in comparison to our love to God.
1. There is nothing wrong with a wedding ring because it is purely symbolic, and has nothing to do with paganism.
2. There is nothing wrong with a wedding ring because it is not connected with a worship ceremony (the birth of Christ), as a Christmas tree is.
Legalism has to do with salvation. The legalistic person, like the Judaizers in Acts 15, and in the Book of Galatians, tried to maintain that one needed to keep the Law and be circumcised in order to be saved. That is an example of legalism. It is adding works to "salvation by faith alone." One might say that the Church of Christ has become a legalistic religion for adding baptism as a requirement to be saved.
It has nothing to do with a church that has set standards of dress, abstinence of drink, abstinence of smoking, short hair on men, etc. If a church sets those standards (just examples), then perhaps they are intended to help one on a path of holiness and separation from the world. They have nothing to do with legalism at all.
This is the statement I made:
"By your standards Paul was a very worldly man because you don't understand the Biblical concept of worldliness."
The constant repetition of: driving cars, living in houses, wearing a wedding ring, etc,; these off the topic responses only show a lack of understanding of the topic being discussed. Actually I am tired of continuously answering the same thing over and over again. So why should you think it an "amazing statement"?
Let me point out to you again for the umpteenth time:
The Apostle Paul
--lived in his own hired house--he had a house.
--made his living by making tents--he had tents.
--Asked Timothy to bring him the "books"--he had books.
--used modern transportation--traveled by ship.
You have used things comparable to the above as "being worldly." You contradict yourself, implying that Paul must be a worldly person by continuing to assert that cars, rings, etc. are worldly, because Paul had the same type of things. Is it not obvious yet that Paul meant something different than just the possession of things??![]()
I have a RCC family living on one side of me and an Orthodox family living on the other side of me. They both put up Christmas trees, and other such decorations. They are both unsaved. They wonder why I don't put up a Christmas tree and decorate our house. I tell them: It is because we celebrate the birth of Christ. We gather together as a family, read the Bible, tell why Jesus came into the world, and was born of a virgin. To us this time of year focuses around Christ not trees and glitter. By not putting up a tree we have the opportunity to witness to others. Learn not the way of the heathen. Do not as the world does. Get away from a worldly lifestyle. Having a Christmas tree and all the other decorations like the rest of the world is simply living a worldly life like the rest of the world. God commands us to be different.
I have a RCC family living on one side of me and an Orthodox family living on the other side of me. They both put up Christmas trees, and other such decorations. They are both unsaved. They wonder why I don't put up a Christmas tree and decorate our house.
Spinach said:Annsni, wanna come over and hang out? Hop on over to Eastern Europe and I'll take you for a coffee. I think we'd get along great.
annsni said:Oh - I'm coming!! I'll treat on the pastries (because you can't JUST have a cup of coffee.)
annsni said:I am not willing to forsake that tradition because God did not tell me to. Only you have and that's not good enough for me.
Umm - can you show me where the commandment of God in this case is worldlines? Because I see no evidence of that in the passage. It was legalism - the fact that the Pharasees actually did the OPPOSITE of being worldly - they made more and more rules to look "different" from the world.
Ahh - I see, you're not willing to give up your worldly pictures. That's OK.
And I'd say it's pretty arrogant to speak on other people's hearts towards Christ.
A number of years ago, I gave up ownership on everything I own. If my home burned down, I'd be OK as long as my family was OK. If I had to get rid of everything and become a missionary, I would. It took some time for me to get to that point but I honestly think God did that to me to prepare me to become a pastor's wife. Nothing I own is mine from my house to my car to my Christmas tree. But I'm not going to give up any of it unless the Lord tells me to.
If you feel having a Christmas tree is worldly then that is your issue and you shouldn't have one. But do not judge others on how they celebrate a day because SCRIPTURE FORBIDS IT. I CAN get rid of my tree - in a heartbeat. But I'm not going to because someone told me to. When God tells me to, then I'll listen.
Oh yeah - and we all love our Christmas trees more than even our family. If my house were to catch on fire, I'd for sure be running to save my tree over my 5 year old daughter. :BangHead:
Umm - might want to look into that. Wedding rings are pagan.
No - Legalism is when you make rules stronger than what Scripture says. I know of churches that will not let you in the door if you're a woman in pants. It has nothing to do with salvation but rules. Period. And what we are speaking of here is a rule above Scripture.
OK - then TVs, cell phones, washing machines, refrigerators, computers, airplanes, grocery stores, etc. are all worldly. Get rid of them. God said so because you're not to be worldly.
Listen, when ANYTHING becomes more important than God, then we should get rid of it. Apparently for you, a Christmas tree is a stumbling stone and you should not have it. However, it is not for us. Tradition does not equal worldliness and until God tells me something, I will continue as I'm doing. I'm comfortable with my practices and I will not have one man who I don't even know tell me what I should do. Scripture tells me to be submissive to my husband and my leaders on this earth. You are neither so I'm all finished.
I am not willing to forsake that tradition because God did not tell me to. Only you have and that's not good enough for me.
Because unlike some dead religions I know I have a relationship with Jesus Christ, am evangelical by nature, and witness to those around me.Matt Black said:And how, pray tell, do you know this?