Luke,
On this point I have to agree. I am 60, and the generation ahead of me is who I assume you are talking about. And yes, I like the traditional hymns, but that is not the point. A lot of the older people actually believe there is something holy about the hymn book compared to contemporary music. In reality, if we were to sing a song (if we knew how) out of Psalms, which is the song book back during David's time, they would not like the music.
This older generation has its own fads just like any other one does. Ours was long hair, the Beatles, and whatever. Theirs is restaurants that serve home cooked meals and hymns that are a few hundred years old. Somehow that is attached to being closer to the Lord. Why I do not know. It is like the KJVO crowd of that generation, it makes no sense. Also, something else I noticed, deacons in Baptist churches during the say 30s, 40s, 50s and maybe 60s, were very authoritarian (legalistic we would call it), and ran the local church as boards of deacons. In this case, older does not make them more Biblical, because a deacon is a servant. If a local church wants a group of men to run the church for them, they need elders.
So, even at my age, the good old days are a myth invented for what purpose I do not know. This generation tolerated segregation and being plain mean to a whole race of people for no reason. That made them better or more godly???? Another example of the good old days????? No thanks.
I remember as a teenager in Gulfport (at First Presby) the deacons and elders (and their wives) felt they were entitled to sit is a particular pew and seat every Sunday. So we, as teens, made a hobby of sitting in each elders and deacons seat just to watch their looks when they walked into church. If you could have seen the look on the wives face.
Dont get me wrong. This generation went through the Great Depression and WW2. And they made our lives better than theirs materially. However, nothing about their worship habits made them any better than anyone else. In fact the generation before them, the roaring 20s, was the devil let loose.
Luke, maybe as the generation gets older, it forgets the mistakes, sin, and focuses on the good times. Who knows? I will be the first to admit, as you have pointed out in other threads, that my generation has done a terrible job overall as a witness for Christ.